Quote From: chdsgrlWell, hopefully, they're with a parent or other relative. I am sincerely hoping they are not in daycare, at least not the little one.
You do put your life on hold when you have kids, or at least you should. When you have kids, you go from having your own life to giving them a life (and I don't mean material things). Women who stay at home with their kids and sacrifice to be the ones who raise them, are the most selfless human beings on the planet.
I wasn't assuming there were problems in your marriage.
I don't think it's nice of you to bash daycare, since the "American" way is to now work your butt off to just get by. Many families don't have family they can count on.
SAHM's are not always unselfish: my stepdaughter's mother doesn't put her life on hold so that she can party, but that's not me. I'm the type person that continues learning throughout life. I saw what my stepdaughter went through being bumped from place to place.
Finally, since you must know, my daughter stays with my mother (but is she at 58 someone YOU approve of?) while I'm in school. The Education is being paid for by my PARENTS. This is best for me and my family.
