Messages By: gofigure

  Women who want to be a man or act like a man confirms the fact that God made only man and woman.  And if we believe the Bible, we see the example in Romans chapter 1 - that homosexual sex is wrong. Any sex outside of marriage is wrong.  How can a person be a Christian and go against Christian moral principles.  How can we as a society be so fragmented in moral believes.  How couild children be protected - when it is God's intent for a man and a woman to raise the child. It is hypocrital for one to say they are a Christian and practice this kind of illicit sex.  Whether gay, straight or whatever -- If people want to practice their sexual preferences -- why does all of society have to accept it and or agree with it.    

   It is certainly shameful how far America has fallen! We are so preoccupied with sex in commercials, in tv and theatre entertainment. It's no wonder our children are getting caught up in homosexual experiences.  "OKAY YOU'RE GAY" we don;t like it and dont have to agree with it. nor do we accept this sinful practice.  If our legislators dont get some backbone and stand up for Godliness -- I fear for the future of our children.  

  I would not allow any relative to have contact with my daughter without adult supervision!! At no time would I allow this creep  in the presence of my daughter!  Relative or not!!!  The parents of this innocent child should be ashamed to let this break up their marriage!!! What?? Why??? they did nothing wrong!!  You would'nt  have guessed in a million years that the grandfather would do such an evil thing as sexually abusing his grand child!

  If my any my relative harm my children in this manner!!! They would have no contact for a long time, if ever!   My children are my first priority!  They deserve my protection first and foremost!!  Relatives have no rights to my children, accept the rights I give as a father and provider.   I would never allow him to have access to any my children again  unsupervised!!  and it would be a long time before that happened!  I'm just baffled at the parents reaction to this!!!

     Nobody! but nobody can wreck your marriage but the two married people! The solution is simple.  Stop allowing malicious gossip to affect how you respond!  Mother-in-laws or mother-outlaws have no power, but the power you give them over your lives.  Relatives do not have any rights when it comes to your marriage and family.  

      So stop whinning about your mother-in-law and set the boundaries to prevent problems! Your mother-in-law bothers you because you  allow her to bother you.  Just stop-it ! Take authority over your lives and children.  You can not reason with someone who is unreasonable!

Keep people out of your married life and family life,  that is your right! Mother-in-laws have no rights, but the rights you give them! So get a backbone!!!

     Married men shouldnt be caught between his mother, mother-in-law and his wife!! His first obligation is to his wife and children.  When a man marries! his wife and children are his

foremost priority! not his mother, mother-in-law or anyone else!!!

     Married people should set the boundaries and if those boundaries are violated!  then the married couple should absent themselves from stupid and malicious gossip!! why play trivial games with people with evil-intent!  Why even bicker with low-life non-sense!!!???

     If you are the man! then wear the pants! and stop being weak!  You can love your mother, or mother-in-law and still keep them out of your house and your business!  Why, and how could any loving couple allow someone to cause division in their home???  It's just plain stupid!! and outrageous!!

   You can not toughen your children by negative abusive talk!! They way to toughen them is teach them by your knowledge and most of all -- by the example you set before them!  The parents are to model the behavior.   Their children may not ever forgive their mother for a destructive example she set before her daughter!   The daughter, in this case, has no obligation to accept her new step dad because the relation was founded on fraud and deception!   This is very damaging, and  the former husband is behaving badly.  Everybody is sick and need a physician !!!

   Some pyschological scars are for a life-time!!  Right now!!  the children should not be forced to chose between any of the adults or try to be reconciled, because there was never a healthy relationship in the first place!!  On what premise could they choose???  Children are smart and shouldnt be forced to choose between adults at this stage in their lives. Especially, between immature, immoral adults!!