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October 12, 2005, 12:14 pm PDT

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I just wanted to post a message, first time i have been on this, I trust that anything Dr.Phil has on his website can't hurt! I was just feeling a little down today, thought if i wrote it down it may go away!! If anyone knows how i feel, which i'm sure they do, respond to this. THis weather here is so cloudy and depressing, i just want the sun to shine again!!
 
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October 12, 2005, 5:09 pm PDT

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Did writing it down make it go away? I hope so even if a little.  

Welcome here, so glad that you stopped by. 

Is there anything that made you feel this way today? 

Or do you struggle with this often? Most people here 

struggle and we try to lift each other up and give them 

support. I hope that you find it nice and helpful here. 

Take care of yourself! 

  

mj 

Thank you for responding to my message, i'm new to this, yes i feel this way alot, and it'd be nice to talk to someone about it that understands, i just suffer from depression and have for a long time, i have good days and bad days, and when it's cloudy for some reason i feel worse! Sounds crazy i know but it's true! Thank you again and you take care of yourself!
 
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October 12, 2005, 5:23 pm PDT

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I would have never known that you were feeling down today since your user mood is happy. Isn't life interesting. It has been so hot and dry here that a rainy cloudy day here is a Godsend. Well, I am praying our sunshine your way.... Please send your cloudy, rainy day our way so my yellow chrysanthemums bloom by my birthday. Last year bloomed on my mother's birthday, which was this past Sunday. I wrote a Pixiku poem today about the ever popular ATTITUDE MENU with only a smile or frown on menu and (choose one). Below is a rough draft and under poetic construction. Lemonade sounds good doesn't it? Nice to meet you and glad you stopped by. Godspeed and best wishes 24/7, SEA


SMILE or FROWN
Pixiku by SEA

When life throws you lemons
You can either smile and make lemonade
Or frown and have a food fight
Thanks for  the message, i really am new to this and to tell you the truth, i didn't even notice the mood thing that you change!! But thank you for your kind words, its nice to get replys to my messages!! Hope you have a wonderful day!
 
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October 13, 2005, 6:46 am PDT

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Today is a fairly good day so far. I just get tired of the same routine everyday, but who doesnt' I just thought i'd post a message this morning, Hope everyones day it good, and I'm gonna try and make mine the best one of the week! I'm just up doing my everyday chores, like laundry!! Laundry never goes away when you have 5 people living in the house. Thanks to everyone who responded to my messages. It is something to look forward to in the morning to come to the message boards and check to see if anyone has wrote anything to me! I guess i need that sometimes to be responded to! Hope everyone has a great day!
 
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October 13, 2005, 6:50 am PDT

I have diabetes

I am posting this message about diabetes. Just wondering if anyone has any advice on the diease? I have struggled with it for a few years now. There for a while i didn't think i was going to make it, but here i am doing ok now. I worry sometimes about my heart, because i have some bad shakey spells and my heart just beats really fast. But i had it checked out and it was fine they said. Guess it's just from reading and seeing what all can happen to you with the complications of diabetes. If anyone has any suggestions about diabetes then i would be glad to hear them, I am sure there are people out there who has suffered from it alot longer than i have.
 
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October 13, 2005, 5:46 pm PDT

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Thank you, i do feel better today, the sun is shining and the weather is great here. That usually puts me in a better mood!!
 
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October 14, 2005, 11:10 am PDT

Hello Kelly

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I too have Diabetes and have had since Sept 2000. At first I was told it was Type 1 and then later on I was told I have Type 2.  

 

When I was first told that I had Diabetes I was so scared because I didn't know much at all about Diabetes and I just thought that I'd go right on to insulin and that scared me alot to think that for the rest of my life I would have to give myself needles and have to do finger prick tests as well. 

 

Then I saw the Specialist for the first time and he told me that, "No, I didn't need to go onto insulin, that I could go onto tablets."  

 

Now one thing that I have been told by the two Specialist's that I've seen over the last 5 years is that if you keep your blood sugars under good control then there is much less chance of having complications later on in life. And so I've been able to keep my blood sugars under very good control and will keep doing that as I want to live for many many years to come. 

 

Mind you I could do with loosing some weight so I'm not fit at all, but I do watch what I eat 99% of the time and 1% of the time I do have the odd bad thing that I shouldn't have, but you can't be good 100% of the time can you!! My Specialists have told me, "That if I want some chocolate, then have some but just don't eat alot. If I want some ice cream, then have some but just not every day." You just have to be careful with the way you eat, Low fat Low sugar and eat alot of foods that are low in the Glycemic Index. 

 

If you don't know what the Glycemic Index is let me know and I will tell you more about it next time I post. 

 

And last but not lest, just enjoy life and take it one day at a time, you'll be fine.  TAKE CARE and hope to hear from you soon, LOVE KELLY. 

Thank you for the advice, I have to take inslin everyday. It was scary at first. I just hated the thought of having to stick myself with needles everyday. There for a while, i was taking 2 shots everyday. I was still having high blood sugar reading. I was eating right and trying to watch what i ate, but it still didn't do any good.I was hospitalized twice for it and then finally he changed the type of inslin i was taking and I have been doing really well. There is still things i don't understand about it, but it scares me when i hear of people dying with complications from diabetes. Thank you for your kind words and i look forward to hearing from you again.
 
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October 14, 2005, 8:16 pm PDT

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Hi everyone well this is my problem. I was dating my boyfriend for 4 years and he was verbally abusive to me but I never thought he was until one day I watched oprah. So it took me along time to finally break it off with him and it was the hardest thing I have had to do. I then went out and had another relationship that was the best I have ever had the guy treated me soo well. I now know how I want to be treated in a relationship. 

  

But now I have started talking to my ex again and he has told me how much he realizes that he was a "di*k" to me and wishes that he didn't get stuck in his ways and now wishes he could take everything back. So anyways we are talking and I can see the changes in him alot but I dont know if someone can really change. I am totally scared to get back with him and take five steps backwards.  

  

Is it possible for people to realize they were wrong in such a short amount of time and change fully. I dont know if its the right choice to go back or just stay friends. Advice form anyone is good. All my friends and family think I would be crazy to go back. 

  

Any advice thanks 

my advice to you is to stay with the one that treats you good. They don't come along like that much and if you go back, i'm sure it will be good for a while, then it'll all start again. I can't know that, but most of the time thats how it ends up. I hope you can make the right choice. Most of the time men like that don't change! Its just in their personality somehow! Take care
 
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October 17, 2005, 6:08 am PDT

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No worries about the advice was glad to be of some help.  

 

While I was pregnant I had to go off the tablets and onto insulin fulltime. I was on 4 shots a day until after I had my little girl who is now 3 years old. As insulin gives you more control on your blood sugars while you are pregnant(while you are pregnant you have to keep your blood sugars very low so that you don't end up having a big baby) but also the tablets I was on could cause birth defects. 

 

While I was pregnant I asked the Specialist if it was possible to go back onto the tablets after I had given birth. He said that I should be able to go back to tablets after I had given birth and had stopped breastfeeding. As the tablets I'm on can cause birth defacts but also the tablets will go through to the breast milk and is not good for the baby. 

 

So, anyway after I had given birth I wasn't able to breastfeed so I was able to go back to the tablets, but I still have nighttime insulin so that my body doesn't have to work so hard at night to keep my blood sugars low. 

 

As to the people who die from complications due to Diabetes, well these people didn't look after themselves right. As it can take many years of high blood sugars to cause big problems, it doesn't happen overnight. So as I said before, if you keep your blood sugars at a good safe control then you have much less of a chance of getting complications later on down the track. 

 

I do know what you mean when you say that there are still things you don't understand about Diabetes, Well I'm still learning more and more all the time about it and I've not had Diabetes for more than 5 years. I guess all you can do is to do alot of reading and each time you see your Speicalist don't be scare to ask any questions that you might have, thats what he/she is there for. 

 

I am glad to hear that your sugars are now at a better control with the new insulin that you are on. Sometimes it can take along while to get things under the right control, but hopefully now things will just get better and better for you. 

 

Well till next time you TAKE CARE, LOVE KELLY. 

Thank you Kelly for responding to my Message, It is really nice to talk to someone about diabetes that understands what I mean. No one that I know personally has diabetes, so no one really understands what i feel.  I feel tired alot but i am under a lot of stress i guess.  I also have ruemotoid arthritis and it really takes its toll on my body in the winter especially.  I have had it since i was around 21. I am 37 now.  But whatever life throws at you , you learn to handle it.  I had gestonional diabetes when i was pregnant with my first child. I guess thats why it later developed into diabetes. It  took years to do so though. I know though that there are people out there that has it worse than me, and i do symathize with them, and wish that i could help them. Thank you again for responding to my message, I really like these message boards where you can come and have a helpful conversation about your problems.  My name is Tracy by the way!  

     Till Next time you take care of yourself,  Love Tracy. 

 
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October 17, 2005, 6:14 am PDT

Hello Karen

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Hi Friends, 

I am insulin resistant, and on the verge of diabetes.  My blood sugars have been very good since I started the Weight Loss Challenge over 2 years ago.  I am being very careful, as I don't want to have my condition develop into type 2 diabetes, but if it does, it's not the end of the world.  I have done a lot of reading on the web, and there is a very good website by author David Mendosa.  www.  mendosa.   com  (without the spaces) hoping that the post will not be deleted, but this is a very helpful link with lots of good information!!!   

 

HUGZ
GOD BLESS
Karen
 

I am glad to hear that you haven't yet developed diabetes, Please continue to watch it, It is not a very fun thing to have!! I never thought that it was as serious as it was until i developed it. I guess i just never understood the seriousness of the disease.  But now i know that it is a very serious disease and you don't want to get it.  It is good that you are studying about it and taking precautions to not develop it, if I had done that i may have not gotten it! You are smart in doing that. I hope that my children doesn't develop it later on. But i will try and tell them all about it so they too can watch for warning signs. I didn't even know the warning signs and probably had the disease for a long time before I found out. I was really thirsty all the time and couldn't get enough to drink, and I had to go to the bathroom every little bit, Just thought I would tell you some of my warning signs so you could look for them, even though if you have read up on it , I'm sure you already know them.  You continue to take good care of yourself. 

                           Till next time, 

                                Tracy 

 

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