Quote From: ritehereIs the way you think of yourself. You seem to be saying that you deserve this for some reason. The fact that your husband decided to take his attentions and lavish them on someone else, although he stays married to you, is a symptom of your dysfunctional marriage. Perhaps if you thought more highly of yourself, he would too. And perhaps if he knew how to be nurturing and caring toward you, he wouldn't seek short-term solutions with someone else.
Seek help for yourself first, get counseling or read through Dr Phil's SELF MATTERS. When you are in touch with yourself, and know what you want in life and how to get it, you will be more prepared to deal with what's going on and make decisions that are best for you.
In my first marriage i use to get angry and say things about how he was treating me and I was then abused. i am scared of being abused again. dont want to go thru that. Once is enough
May you dont have the full picture
I am a very caring person. I take care of our home, I make sure his laundry is done and ironed. and tell him everyday how special he is to me. Tell him I love him.. He is the one with the problem
he thinks he should have his cake and eat it too. He treats me special. does things for me.
Just like I do for him..But he made a comment once. he needs someone to eat his cum, and I couldnt do it so he was going to find someone to do that for him.. He is sick and is married to a women who really loves him and really cares about him and I show him that everyday.
