Messages By: cassaemmia

I Do believe in  spanking to a point but the problem is when is the spanking gone from a tap on the bum to leaving marks and scars on the inside and out no matter what this will always be a discussion that will never be solved.  Lets just hope that all children can some day not worry about when the next beating wiil come. 

Hello working moms i work almost full time and my husband also works full time we have four kids 10 year old triplets and a very spunky four year old they are all girls {god bless my husband} and we are a blended family  that it has done pretty good . I work because of the money we don't live with lots of fancy things we are trying to save up for our first house I'm 35 and still trying to juggle rent, bills, kids, car payments, and trying to put a little away for the future. I am lucky i get home at the same time the girls get off the bus so i get to be there to do homework with them witch i really think is important for either parent to do.I know some women think working moms should be at home and if your lucky and have the money to do this and it is what you want then be happy with this but like me i really have to work and that  right now  is my reality.

hello its cassaemia again here in Canada we get one year off for maternity leave that is great moms get this time with their children and some take longer. Then they decide or have no choice to return to work. So they bring then to day care these children most of them have been with moms from day one and have not left their side so when they bring them and try to leave the kids have a fit .And some will cry for the half or full day they are there.The moms say they feel terrible and I'm sure they do but i feel bad for the little guys that are surely scared and don't know what is going on I think this is not fair and mean I know it is hard when they are small to leave them with other people i found it hard with my daughter . But when I leave her to go and do anything i know she will be fine and will make the most of the time that she has with whoever she is with. And really its not about you missing them its about getting them ready to be independent and to enjoy the different things that other people{ that you know and trust of course} can give them and they will learn that mommy or daddy leaves but they will come back. 

hello i saw Friday show and i cant believe that mother who just lets her boy spit hit or yell at her and then gives him a big hug after are you kidding me what in the heck is that teaching him that its OK to treat people like crap if he doesn't get what he wants . I can guarantee that when hes at school and he does not get what he wants the kid or teacher he hits or spits on won give him a big hug and tell him its OK . I have four kids three 10 year olds and one 4 year old the little one has had her days of hitting biting and just being nasty well she did not get a hug thats for sure and when she was put in for a time out and her favorite movie was taken away and she had a fit the last thing i was worried about was if she was happy I love her very much and she is a very fun to be with but i wont let any one spit on me even if its my precess baby. This lady has to grow up and take control of this rascal before he stars running the house

What the heck is going on this whole thing with Anna Nichole is unbelievable.I don't care is your a famous person or not .I cant believe this poor woman lay ed in a morgue for three weeks while a bunch of selfish idiots fought over her body .Never mind the poor baby find out who the father is and let it rest .Enough is enough this has really truly shown me what money can do to a bunch of, you would think intelligent people .May that poor woman rest in peace. 

Does any one maybe think that Britney may have post pardon this girl is losing her mind and thank god she doesn't have the kids and she stay in rehab .Is this what being a celebrity is all about what Britney and Nichole have gone through. I think my quite little life with very little money works great for me. It just doesn't seem in the whole scheme of things that it is all worth it.

The grandparents on that show were creepy he reminded me of a whacked out evangelist or preacher I hope they don't get any child until they AR checked out.  

 I hope I'm not the only that can see she wants her first husband back there was no real need for her to be on the show because all she did was disagree with Dr Phil. She needs to stop playing oh poor me and think about someone else but herself.

 Hello I live in a town of around 30000 people and we have one of the highest teen pregnancy rates. This is scary to think that theses girls as young as 12 think that this is the best way to get out of the house in their own place.But with the welfare check it only gets them a rat hole to live in and the days are spent sitting in Tim Horton donut shops and walking around at 1 in the morning.These children are dragged all over town at all hours of the night with a stroller for a bed and a bunch of yelling and screaming teenagers as their role models.These children are taken away from them and children's aid will just keep giving them back the only thing that they worry about is that if they don't get their kids back they wont get their welfare check.  The boys think this is cool to them its a contest to see how many girls they can get pregnant and the girls think that here is my way out and that this small doll will replace the love and caring that they are lacking. And as these children grow and become teenagers themselves are their parents telling them not to live the life they did. Maybe a small few will but in the end they have started or are continuing this vicious cycle were in the end it always hurts the children