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October 16, 2005, 12:04 pm PDT
School Issues
Quote From: mamaglo123If a bus is available for your daughter to ride to school, send her on the bus. If you must drive her to school, see that she gets there and leave immediately. Don't wait while the kids stand in line to go in. The sooner you leave her, the sooner she will adjust. By hanging around, you are giving her the message that you leaving is a problem rather than a normal circumstance. I absolutely agree with the advice to leave promptly when saying good-bye to your child at school. So many times, the child is fine with being there...they enjoy school, the teacher, friends, activities, etc. We forget that at even at a young age, children can sense the emotions of those around them. If you are apprehensive about leaving your child, they too will feel apprehensive about being there. Sometimes they feel guilty for leaving YOU alone! (THere are some great books available for young children about what mommy will do while they are away at school.) It is a great idea to talk about school before going and once they get home. But, in addition, consider discussing your day with your child so they still feel connected to your life while they are away. Make it an adventure...a time of connection while you share your experiences with each other.
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