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April 18, 2009, 7:22 am PDT

Not a Mother

This girl might be a "Mother" in name only, but real Mothers nurture, love, protect  their children.  If this girl does not do that, she only had a baby, she didn't become a Mother. Real Mothers don't pawn those jobs off on the child's grandparents or others.   It sounds like this girl made the wrong decision when she elected to have & keep her baby.  She had options....one was giving the child up for adoption to someone who was mature, emotionally & financially stable, & who could give this baby all he would need to grow up to be a good citizen.  It's not fair for the parents of the teen girl who becomes pregnant & decides to keep the baby, to have to literally raise the child for her & watch the teen just get more & more dependent and defiant too.  I believe that sometimes a child would be better off if adopted, even if the child is a year old.  These people have to decide honestly what is truly best for the child & no one else.  It might be painful & humiliating, but the child deserves better.

 

 

 

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