This girl might be a "Mother" in name only, but real Mothers nurture, love, protect their children. If this girl does not do that, she only had a baby, she didn't become a Mother. Real Mothers don't pawn those jobs off on the child's grandparents or others. It sounds like this girl made the wrong decision when she elected to have & keep her baby. She had options....one was giving the child up for adoption to someone who was mature, emotionally & financially stable, & who could give this baby all he would need to grow up to be a good citizen. It's not fair for the parents of the teen girl who becomes pregnant & decides to keep the baby, to have to literally raise the child for her & watch the teen just get more & more dependent and defiant too. I believe that sometimes a child would be better off if adopted, even if the child is a year old. These people have to decide honestly what is truly best for the child & no one else. It might be painful & humiliating, but the child deserves better.