Messages By: hellsbells

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October 26, 2005, 8:57 pm PDT

ending toxic friendships

do to something that happened with my 5 yr old son I had my eyes opened quickly and I must say i hurt for about 2 wks at the lose of these 2 friends but after a few wks I found I was more hurt at myself for not listening to my gut . Friends except you good bad and ugly, they trust in u and visa versa. I have found since ending these 2 friendships I am more calm and not stressed. I have also opened my eyes to other people and I have a few dear friends that we laugh giggle and just have a great time together we do not judge each other we just are ourselves. So sometimes its best to flush people cause if u ask urself or others are they my friends. The answer is no they are not.
 
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October 26, 2005, 10:22 pm PDT

its ok for them

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I totally agree with you.....this couple is only joking with each other and they both know it and enjoy it...... 

The only thing they have to watch is bantering back and forth in front of their son...... he obviously doesn't know *most* people don't like it...... :)  I think Dr. Phil was right on with this couple. ;) 

i watched this episode and i also feel it works for them they seemed truly happy and at ease with each other. what works for some does't work for all. My dh and i are alot like this couple we call each other buttheads but our kids know not to use this at school or to other adults. yes they need to be careful around their little one. Some of the comments i have read were like they were abusive I didn't get this from them at all.
 

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