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November 30, 2005, 10:10 am PST

single mom

hi everyone  

well i am a single mom and i work  

so it can be stressful working when you have kids  

i have a 7yr old son  

and he can be a handful sometimes 

so with work and taking care of him plus a b/f  

it can be stressful  

of course my son goes with his dad every weekend so that gives me a break  

any advice? 

thanks jenny 

 
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November 30, 2005, 10:17 am PST

hi

well my b/f is 46 and i am 33  

and he has a high drive  

of course i am not bothered by it at all  

the thing to worry about is when they don't want to do anything or touch you anymore right? 

  

 
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November 30, 2005, 11:10 am PST

hi from the states

hi there  

how is everyone doing there?  

  

 
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December 2, 2005, 8:16 am PST

hi

Quote From: a_sad_wife

 EXACTLY!  :-(

what do you mean?  

  

 
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December 4, 2005, 4:57 am PST

hi

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gee thanks...

well i did not mean to make you feel bad 

 hope you don't  

  

 
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December 4, 2005, 5:00 am PST

hi

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I, on the other hand, would be happy sleeping in another room. Not only does he expect to get sex every night (if not 2 or 3 times), but he refuses to initiate sex at all, because I've turned him down. He says that because I've turned him down in the past, I've shaken his security. BUT! He gets downright mean if he doesn't get it at least 3-4 times a week. I don't want to be touched at all, but I'm the one who has to initiate sex -- all the time!  

  

He's not abusive, so I don't want anyone to think that, but he is one of those very stand-off types of people. He is not affectionate with me at all. He doesn't even say good morning to me. He and I argue -- a lot, and just about everything will cause an argument -- and he refuses to budge on anything (except that he has to have sex -- a lot). I just don't want it. I don't even want to be in the same room with him. Every night I go to bed thinking -- GOD! Do I have to do this again?  

  

I know this isn't normal, but what do I do? I dread going to bed at night. I dread having to initiate something I don't want. I don't want him to touch me -- the more unwanted sex I have, the less I want any at all. How do we come to some kind of compromise? It's been going on like this for 5 years! I love the man, but I can't stand the thought of him touching me! And yet, I MUST initiate sex at least 3 times a week just to keep him on the edge of happy. If for any reason, he doesn't get his "quota," he's impossible to live with! He snaps at the kids, criticizes everything I do, grumps around the house. In fact, when he gets like this, sometimes I'll just tell him to drop his pants and give him a B--- J--. I hate it!  

  

How do we resolve this? I can't go on like this! 

how does he get mean when he doesn't get it 3-4 times a week 

 i mean 2 times a week would be good  

do you have kids together?  

do you work outside the home?  

i mean people get tired  

doesn't he realise that?  

i don't really initiate all that often either 

well i would not submit to something you do not like  

i do not and will not do bj 

and my b/f understands this  

how long have you been married? 

  

 
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December 4, 2005, 5:04 am PST

hi

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hi we are from australia  brisbane and we have to boys and a baby girl on the way   we are new to this so hi to everyone!!

congrats on the baby girl that is coming to you 

how old are your boys?  

i am in the states  

i have a 7yr old boy 

  

  

 
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December 5, 2005, 9:33 am PST

congrats

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 Well, things have changed since the last time I was on here.  On our six year "anniversary", my boyfriend proposed to me!!!!  We are getting married June 24th!  We are so excited!  All of our friends and family are thrilled.  Maybe the old saying is true......Good things come to those who wait!

hi there  

well congrats on the proposal 

i have been with my b/f for almost 3 yrs  

and he said this is our year  

so hopefully i will get a question asked this year as well 

i am in indiana you? 

  

 
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December 9, 2005, 11:08 am PST

hi

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Well, my fingers are crossed for you!  Hope you get your question too!!  And yes, I'm in Indiana as well.

well thanks  

hope i do as well  

i am sure this will be the year  

what part of indiana?  

i am in indpls 

 
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December 11, 2005, 5:01 am PST

from one single mom to another

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My daughter is a single Mom, with a 6 year old little boy. In the past 3 years, she had been planning to get married to her Son's Father, he was on his way to work @ 6:30 AM and was hit by a drunk driver. After 25+surgeries he is attempting to put his life back together. My daughter and grandson witnessed him being pulled from the tangled pile of metal. He was bloody and ashen gray, with critial injuries. Seven months later, her half sister @ 14 years old, was killed in a car accident. Five months later, I was permanently injured in a vehicle rollover crash. I was T-boned by a teenage driver and my vehicle flipped, crushing my head and pinning me in the vehicle. My daughter saw this and thought I was dead. A week after my accident, one of her cousins was killed in a motorcycle accident. She is still a single Mom, trying to deal with the tragedies in her life and be a good mother. I can only do so much. After the accident when Alan was hit by the drunk, they could no longer afford the house they had purchased together. She had moved from tiny apartment to tiny apartment, until my husband and I took out a loan and purchased a place that she could afford to make the payments on with the help of  a roommate. There are alot of single Mom's who need help. It takes a village to raise a child. Three years later, our grandson at 6 years old now, will still tell you about "the bad man, that hit daddy." God bless all the single Mom's out there, that try really hard to raise thier families.   

hi the story was unbelievable  

i hope your dughter is stil staying strong 

i am a single mom as well  

we are making it because of me going to work every day and doing my best 

i mean that is all we can do  

my heart goes out to your daughter and grandson  

sounds likeshe is doing a good job aswell  

that is all we can do is the best we can  

thanks for taking a stand for us single moms  

there are alot of us out here 

  

 

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