Messages By: jennife72

does anyone else have a sister in law that does not like you? 

i have one and  not sure why she doesn't  

and one of my family members gets along with her so well that it is like she takes her side before me 

christmas shopping for example 

we went out to do some and i was getting some things and are limit is $75 

so i had bought 4 things and evidently that was not enough 

so my other family member said that they would pay for it and i could pay them back 

i said no that is enough. 

i am a single mother and usually christmas is about the kids anyway 

am i right? 

well anyway i said no and the other family member said well maybe we should have lowered the limit  

like i could not afford to buy anymore  

i mean one of the items i had bought the sister in law was a crock pot and that was $35 alone  

am i right or am i wrong in thinking this way? 

let me know  

thanks for the advice  

that is the way i feel  

the holidays have gotten way out of hand as far as how much you buy someone  

i mean i have bought my son 6 things  

not big things but nice things  

and the person that was saying maybe we should have lowered the limit is my own sister 

now that is hitting where it hurts  

i mean she is family  

but oh well 

 we will get thru it  

we are having christmas at my apartment so that will be fun  

my son is going to have christmas day with his dad for the first time  

he is usually with me 

my b/f is going to have christmas eve at his place  

me and my son are going to have christmas eve at my parents house  

when we get done there then his dad will pick him up and i might go out to my b/f's  

depending on the weather and how late it is  

thank again  

jenny in indiana 

hi everyone  

i am from indiana and looking for penpals  

i am 33 and a single mom who is attached  

looking for friends to chat with  

take care 

hi there i am in the states  

how are you?  

i am a single mom of a 7yr old boy  

maybe we can talk sometime  

i am at work and bored 

how are you? i am in the states  

well has he even asked you to marry him yet 

me and my b/f have been together going on 3 yrs  

and this christmas i believe he is going to ask me  

we have talked about the living together thing but i have been there and done that  

and never got married  

we get along great btu don't live together 

i think your b/f needs to get it together 

i mean i don't want to spend the rest of my life dating my b/f  

and i am sure you don't want that either  

has he been married before? 

are all boys like mine or am i doing something wrong 

i am a single parent of a 7 yr old boy  

he has tendency to smart back and disrespect me with the things he says  

is this a phase or is there something i can do to take control of this before he gets to old to do anything about it?  

he does see his dad and not sure if that is having an effect on his attitude 

i don't think his dad respects women at all  

i have tried taking toys away and i have spanked him on occasion 

not sure if that is the answer 

let me know  

thank you  

well i have a 7yr old and i have spanked him on occasion 

probably more than i should  

sometimes when i do that he will say that doesn't hurt  

what am i to do?  

he has a smart mouth on him 

 and i am a single parent  

hi there  

my name is jennifer to  

so your husband is diabled 

 is he able to get a job at something? 

i mean you are working 2 jobs 

when do you get to see your kids? 

why is an 8 yr old surfing the net anyway?