Messages By: jamiewith2

I have encounted several injustices with my ex-boyfriend leading to the path of the tragedy that happened 2 weeks ago. In our small community, the local police new the description of my vehicle and the abuser for every 911 call that was made from me. We had 27 incidents in Portage County before he actually did some "real" time if you want to call it. 6 months in a DUI recovery center, with tv's, games and room full of men because the jail was over populated. All after the phone harassement, threatening my life and my families on tape, felonius assault against my self and my mother, breaking the civil protection order more than I can count on both hands and from day one until this day and forever, I am still looking over my shoulder. Nothing was ever taken serious enough and I am so tired of hearing about their rights (abusers or first time jailers) when my rights have been obstructed for the REST of my life and my childrens' too. This can't hit home any further than it actually happening to me. I am so sorry,so sad and so angry that the justice system stinks with this and any other violent crime that is not taken more seriously. Women are killed everyday due to stalkers, etc and nothing has been changed. I will do my part do nag and harass the courts and anyone who will listen to get our laws change. I didn't have a dry eye in this episode....I just pray to God for all and hope we can fix this. I apologize for the rambling due to late night writing but I just had to get this off of my chest because I can relate and know first hand (just not to this extreme THANK GOD) that the justice system is not on our sides. Again, I pray for this family. I am so sorry.

No one "lets" them control them on purpose. Some times when you are so scared for your life and your families and you are in an abusive relationship you stay to predict the next mood. When I was away from my abusier, I never knew what to expect, how is was feeling, where he would show up etc. When I was with him, all though I couldn't stop him from getting angry, I at least knew when it was coming, where he was and what he was doing so that I could avoid him. If it were that easy to get out, don't you think more people would? No one likes to be scared, hurt, threaten and until your in that situation, shoulda coulda woulda's do not matter after the fact. Donna will have enough of those in her head for the rest of her life.

I did not get to watch this show until this morning. I am so angry and beside myself. Watching that tape with Kevin screaming, taunting and trying to bully everyone in his household made me nautious. I am bawling my eyes out because i hurt for those children. She needs to leave him for those kids then her. I am so sick and angry that I feel like jumping out of my skin. Him and his excuses....I felt like PUNCHING him!!!! I pray for them...mostly for the children and I pray the Kevin changes.

 I am sorry to hear about your son and the situation that has happened.  I do not necessarily feel that it is fair.  But what about those kids who maybe are 21 or so and they are looking to prey on a minor who may only be 14 or 15.  They could say that thought that person was older too.  The line is very thin.  I personally do not think that a "sex offender" should be alive.  The rehabilition is what, less then 10%?  Gimme a break.  We don't need more laws.  We need to enforce the laws we have and quit wasting time and money on species that hurt others.  I do pray for your family as it seems as if your sons new "title" will be a death wish for him.