Messages By: mjoan27

Some people need a list for ‘division of labors’ or a list stating who is responsible for what.  Now enforcing this may be a whole nother matter entirely.  The last couple with her working three jobs and him one and sitting on his but sure hits home.   

          Now while my mother stayed home with us four kids and my father worked 16 hrs a day mom doing all the things that needed doing around the house was acceptable.  If both people work then both should divide home thing without one doing all the things.   

          I worked over 40 hrs and still had to do the laundry, food shopping, cooking, housework, and pack his lunches while he sat on his but.  My now ‘x’ husbands excuse was “My mother never complained.”  Even when his mother told him, she didn’t complain because she didn’t go to work until after he turned 15 years old, before that she stayed home and raised all four of the children.  

          Does the 2nd couple the woman that has to be engaged to a man is she desperate?  Does she have to be engaged to anyone just to feel that she has a man and now she’s complete?  She doesn’t need a man to do this and she definitely doesn’t need him.  Hey but if she takes him she gets what she gets, because he’s not going to change why would he its worked for him so far.   

          I agree 100% with Dr. Phil these people are moochers, and the women are traveling on the Egyptian river of De-Nile .  I would rather be alone (without a man) and happy then to be with a moocher or user and be miserable, but that’s just my 2 cents worth. 

Mom-in-law needs to respect angee's decision on not smoking around the children.  Everyone agrees that Angee is a terrific mom.  Part of what makes her terrific is keeping her children healthy.  I am a smoker who does not smoke around my 2 sons.  (Never have.  Never will!)  My home and vehichle are smoke free.  I do not take my children to a place or residence that is filled with smoke.  If family members who smoke in the house want to see the children, I will meet them somewhere else.  This part of that conversation really teed me off.  She is the mother.  She is the one who decides.  She does not have to sit back and allow the children to come home and smell like smoke from the mom-in-laws house.  I wouldn't let them go either!  She can take it outside!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

WHY DO YOU THINK TONY IS SICK.THE GUY TOLD HER HE DID'NT WANT TO GET MARRIED.AND SHE STAYED JUST LIKE I DID.AND ABOUT SEX YES YOUR RIGHT YOU CAN GET SEX FROM OTHER PLACES.BUT DO YOU REALLY WANT TO.WHAT ABOUT STD'S AND OTHER THINGS YOU CAN GET FROM THESE SO CALLED OTHER PLACES.AT LEAST SHE KNOW'S  WHERE SHES GETTING THE SEX FROM AND IT'S SAFE.YOU HAVE TO BE A HOOKER TO GET IT OTHER PLACES.

                                                                  KATHY