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October 26, 2005, 2:53 pm PDT
Cheer up
Quote From: cheerio576Bless your heart. I hate how the media shows beautiful woman with huge breasts. I have the same problem with my nose. I hate being in public with my husband because I feel my nose is so nasty and theres so many prettier woman with small noses. Keep your chin up, even though I am a stranger I am here for you and I hope that you feel better. Your message made me so sad that I registered just so I could reply. I know that it can be hard to feel different or ugly by the medias standards, everyone feels that way about some part of their body. I myself am self concious about my weight and height. I am almost 6ft, and not a super model, so instead I just feel like a giant. I always felt like once I fell in love with someone, they would make me fell better about myself. But I finally realized that no one would love me until I loved myself! We hear that all the time, but it couldn't be more true. It is important to be proactive about things that you can do to change your life and make you happier, but constantly feeling paranoid and worthless is no way to live. Especially since you have three young daughters! How can you tell them that they are beautiful no matter what if you yourself judge your worth based on your breast size? Another small reminder, having small breasts (or being a big woman like me) is NOT the worst thing in the world. Read some of the other posts, and imagine what it would be like to have no breasts at all, or be a man with breasts......stay positive, and remind yourself what is wonderful about you, not what you hate. And don't compare yourself to media standards, that will get you nowhere you want to be.
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