i hate to disappoint you, but do you really think you are ready to support a kid? i know you are not saying you are going to go out and get pregnent now, but just think about this.
i am sure that you will love and support it emotionally and mentally, but can you support it financially. just remember that if you really love this kid that is unborn and unconceived that you will wait until you can afford a kid.
i am in a similar situation as you. it takes ever bone in my body for me to continue the pill so my fiance and i will not have a child yet. even though we both REALLY want one now i am only 21 and have yet to finish college.
i know it is important (at least for me) to be young enough to still be able to relate to your child when it is in it's teens, but waiting five more years to better establish yourself in the world will not hurt.
:)
