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February 27, 2006, 3:06 pm PST
I was a cheater, here's what I think
Quote From: sweetinmnI just wanted to tell Tracy to please keep your eyes open and don't put your guard down. My sister, a year ago, went through a similiar situation. Her soon to be ex, right after we all found out he was having a affair, had told her he was going to say goodbye to his "girlfriend". He came to each of us (my family) and asked for forgiveness and told each one of us he is going to say goodbye to this woman and this was going to be the hardest thing he had to do in his life. He even cried (good performance). I even believed him. My other family members were very scepticle. Anyways, within a week he had told my sister that he said his "goodbye" and it was over. It was all BULL!! About a month later my sister found text messages from this woman and e-mail's into his work e-mail. He was trying to hide it, but she found everything. They are now going through a divorce and he is still seeing this woman. So just be careful and always be aware of what is going on. For some reason men think were stupid and won't find out about stuff!! First, I had an affair for 3 years, and loved the man I cheated with. His wife found out, and then she called me. We met, and I told her I loved him, but would back away and let them work things out. He told her that he would stop seeing me and they would work things out. She called me a couple more times to tell me that he went before his church to ask for forgiveness, and that he had changed, and I was happy for him, but still sad, as I loved him. Then the next week, I found a CD on my front step with a note that simply said 3, 6, &9 on it. The CD had three songs on it that were meant to be heard by me. The message in these songs were hold on, I'll be back with you as soon as I can. I called his wife and told her about the CD, and all she could say was "how do you know it came from him?" Trust me here, it came from him. Also, I don't like once a cheater always a cheater!!!! I have not cheated since then, and am happily married to the love of my life. I would never go back to that dark hole again! My family dissowned me, I lost friends over it, and most of all I learned that I was brainwashed. I hear about child molesters and how they begin molesting, and I feel that that is how I was brainwashed into having the affair to begin with. I do take responsiblity, but also felt violated at the same time
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