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October 28, 2005, 6:55 am PDT

a hopeful mommy to be

my twins are 8 years old and they are for the  most part good kids. i am expecting my 3rd child in march. i am having a girl. i am considered high risk cuz i had twins and cuz i had preclampsia during my 1st pregnancy.  i thought this pregnancy would be smooth sailin for me, but i was wrong. i was told i had toxoplasmosis, then i had my blood sent off for further testin and it ended up bein negative, so i got passed that hurdle and then the next hurdle showed its ugly head, i am RH A- and my husband is 0 +  and when i had my twins i recieved the rhogam shot but either didnt get enuff of it or didnt get it at all cuz my blood has produced the antibodies toward positive fetuses . so i have to see my regular obgyn and a specialist. my regular ob i see every 3-4 weeks and my specialist i see every 2 weeks. every other visit at my specialist office i have to go thru a amniocentesis. i had my 1st one at 16 weeks and it determined that my baby girl's blood typin was + just like her daddy's. so i have to have a amnio every other visit to my specialist. the specialist says shes doin great, growin and showin no signs of anemia or any other serious problems. shes very active and weighs 11 ounces. 2 weeks prior to that she weighed 7 ounces. he thinks everything is goin to just fine with my baby girl. i pray so, shes done been thru enuff and i am wantin her to be stubbern and fight off anything that may bother her while in my belly.  i take a vcr tape with me to each appointment and he gets her on my vcr tape so my husband can see her move and squirm bout. this whole thing has had us stressed out. in the very beginning we was told we was pregnant, then was told that we was pregnant by all the test but there was no baby in the sac, just a empty sac,that id miscarry and rejcet the pregnancy when my body couldnt carry it no more ,  it devestated us, then a week later went back to the hospital and they finally found the baby, i just wasnt far enuff for them to see her yet. then we get passed that then had to deal with the toxoplasmosis which ended up negative thank god and now we got this last hurdle to pass. i am soon startin my 6th month and the doctors think she will be just fine, she is showin no signs of any problems and is healthy as she can be. i have decided to name her' Heavenly Danielle Chastain ' the reason i chose heavenly is cuz shes been thru sooo much i wanted to thank my good lord above by givin her a name that showed my thanks to him. shes definately my little miracle baby.  Has anyone else out there been thru this, to where your blood has produced antibodies towards positive blood type babies and the rhogam shot does no good cuz u already got the antibodies? if so, can you tell me bout your experience with it please. thanks for reading my message. and yall have a great day.
 
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October 30, 2005, 5:40 pm PST

i need help

i need to ask a question, what can cause someone to loose their unborn baby at 6 months? i know a friend of mine who lost their unborn baby and they do not know what has caused this. if anyone can help id be greatly appreciatted of it.
 
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November 1, 2005, 6:41 am PST

it is possible

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i was just wondering if anyone knows how possible it is to still be pregnant even if you get your period a few days after you have sex?
well i just wanted to let you know that it is possible to be pregnant and still get your period  a few days later. i got pregnant june 8th, 2005 and my period came on schedule, june 15th. next month my period was due july 13 and i was at work that day and it never came. i waited alll day and night for it to show it's head but it never showed up. that night me and my boyfriend ( now my husband ) went to wal-mart and got a first response pregnancy test and it didnt waste any time producing a positive sign.. i got the test that had 2 in the box and i took the 2nd that morning cuz my friends say morning urine is best to use even though the box said any time day is a good time to take it , it didnt have to be morning urine. well it was positive as well. so it is a good possibility. i got pregnant a week before my period was due. i am now 21 weeks pregnant. finally beginnin my 6th month with this little girl i am carring. i wish you all the best and keep me posted as to whether you are or not..if you do not mind. good luck.
 
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November 1, 2005, 6:10 pm PST

i thank you

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hi 

well one cause of it could be that the unborn child wasnt attached inside the uterus. this happend to alot of people i know . it is not easy but it still doesnt mean that it will happen every time she ll try to get pregnant.  

i thank you very much for your help. it is good to know something instead of just just sittin here racking my brain to help my best friend. she has been thru alot and i pray for the best for her.  i thank you once again for answering my question.
 
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November 2, 2005, 8:08 pm PST

im confused..need input

hey i am in need of a question answered... when you get so far along in pregnancy you get a dark line down from your belly button to the bottom of your stomache, well i am 21 weeks into my 2nd pregnancy and i havent gotten that dark line  yet? does anyone know if it is normal to not get it or if it shows up maybe later then 21 weeks. i got it when i was pregnant with my twins, but havent gotten it yet with this baby. i will begin my 22nd week monday november 7, 2005. thanks very much for your time in reading this. have a great day yall?
 
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November 5, 2005, 7:31 am PST

hey kellyanne

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i am 23 weeks pregnant this week and so far ive had nothing but concerns in my pregnancy.i thought i was in early labor during the week. i was so worried.my blood pressure is up and down constantly and ive had more pains in my joints and neck than i care to complain about.had problems with my bloods in my last pregnancy too.i just hope the wost is over and that i can enjoy the rest of my pregnancy,cause other than all the problems its wonderful.kellyanne.ireland
hi kellyanne,  i hope this finds you and your baby doin good. i just read what you wrote and am curious bout the problems you had with your blood during your last pregnancy. i am also havin problems with my blood this pregnancy with my baby girl. am curious to know if you had the same troubles i am havin now and the outcome of your pregnancy. if you do not mind answerin me. thanks very much.. have a gr8 day
 
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December 14, 2005, 8:20 am PST

keep ur chin up

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I'm 20 years old, I still live at home and I'm in college.  I'm 13 weeks pregnant and I found out when I was 5 weeks. I struggled with the decision to keep it or not. Because I've had my whole life planned out I baby was not in it til later.  But I decided I would keep it.  Things where going great my family was suporting me completely. Even my father, who never was there for me and who I keep it from for over a month, he is happy about it. But things have completely turned around and my family, i.e. my sister, tells how much I'm going to suck as a parent and how I won't be able to provide for my child. Now its got me in consistent stat of depression.  I won't to keep it. But every time they say something to me it makes me cry for hours at a time. Sometimes I think I would be better off not alive so that way I don't have to go through an aboption and with the cons of having a child.  What should I do? Who can I turn to?
hey my name is shannon, i have just read ur post and i am terribly sorry that ur family has done a 360 on you and went from supportive to non supportive in what seems like a blink of a eye. it does hurt to have your own family say such hurtful things bout you and your unborn baby. a family is supposse to be supportive of their own and to have them turn on you does make you feel like you aint goin to be a good mommy to your little one, but honey do not let your family take the joys of this pregnancy from you. when you feel the baby move and kick for the first time, you will realize that what your goin to bring into this world is nuttin short of a miracle and make you know that this is your baby and it doesnt matter if anyone else wants this baby as long as you want and love this baby. i know how hard it is, i had my twins when i was 22 and i raised them without the help of their father cuz he didnt want them and i suffered critisism from my family as well, but i didnt let it change my mind on  bringin my kids into this world. i felt like this..i played and now i must pay for what i have done. i couldnt imagine my life without my twins in it, they are definately a inspiration to make me want to do good and right by them. i am 27 weeks pregnant now and my husbands mom wasnt happy bout me bein pregnant either, she said some really cruel things to me and my husband, but it is our child and not hers and if she feels that way then she didnt have to have anything to do with my new baby. but she has came around and is now excited bout my baby. it is hard to deal with the cruel things families can say to you, but honey just hold your head up and be proud to be bringin a blessing from god into your life. theres alot of people out in the world that doesnt want their kids ( some does what they think is the right thing to do by their child and let someone adopt their child and others arent ready for the responsibility of a child ) , but for the ones that do ... god bless you.  raisin a child is never a easy job, but it is worth it.  all the joys of bein a mommy will come to you when your baby is old enuff to reach for you and hug your neck and kiss ya back and it will make all the time consumin late night feedings diaper changings worth it when shes able to respond to you. so do not let your families attitude towards you and your unborn baby get you depressed, just remember that the life you are carring inside you is depending on you to make sure he/she is healthy and loved. i will pray for you and your unborn baby. if u ever wanna chat with me, plz email me at swttexasgirl2003@yahoo.com    i will help you in anyway i can help you. im not here to try to use you or hurt you, i just know how scared you must  be and how much more painful it is to have your family be against you durin what is supposse to be a happy time. just hold your chin up and take care of yourself. i hope i have helped you..and sorry this reply is soo lengthy. take care of both of yall.
 
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December 14, 2005, 8:25 am PST

thanks

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Hey i may not know lots but when i was pregnant with my first child i never got a dark line down from my belly button and my son came out just fine and he is doing really well. so i dont think you have anything to worry about.
well i thank you for answerin me...makes me feel better to know someone else didnt get the dark line either and everything was just fine with the baby. i appreciatte it bunches.
 

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