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October 31, 2005, 1:11 pm PST

Spoiled Children

When I was growing up, I am now 41, my dad worked at the post office and my mom stayed home.  We did not have a lot of extra money...so eating out was very rare.  We had game night on Friday nights and my grandparents would join us.  My grandfathers sisters were older and though they had money, we never knew they had much by the way they lived, would play Monopoly with my brother and I every Sunday afternoon after Sunday dinner.  My maternal grandparents were not rich, but I managed to always have more than most because of them.  When I turned 16 my parents bought me a $200.00 car and said if I wanted more than that, I would have to work for it, and I did and still do....I always appreciated my parents and grandparents sacrafices for good dental care and the extras we received as children...I never received what most children now get, new cars and tons of designer clothes, but my parents were always there and we all ate dinner together every night and what you remember most about your childhood won't be all the stuff you got, it will be about the time your family spent together.   

 
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November 1, 2005, 8:33 am PST

Sometimes It's not worth it!!

I also have been stressed at work.... I had a job one time that I was driving to work and thought to myself, "The only thing I don't have control over is dying, everything else is optional"....So I turned my car around and went home, called and said, "I Quit"  and went out looking for something else....You find ways to make it and survive.... 

 
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November 1, 2005, 1:27 pm PST

What a selfish wife!

Mary,  you are something....My husband and I watched this show together and he was floored by your self centered attitude,  you are lucky to have a husband with the feelings you have...actually you need to live single and only think of yourself!  I don't care what you have to do to pay the bills, if you have to live in a camper, thats what you should do.  He is more important than anything....I have a very nice home and furniture, but would live in a tent to help my husband with medicine and bills....Things don't matter, they come and go in life, but people you care about do matter.  I only hope you never get sick, hopefully someone will be there for you...without the attitude!   

 
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November 3, 2005, 7:30 am PST

I understand where Nichelle is coming from!

Nichelle, I used to babysit at Disneyworld part time and babysit a child with this disorder, I was in my late 30's then and took care of her for about 10 hours, by the end of the day I was exhausted...I went home to my husband and my daughter, who I thought was difficult....I had a whole new appreciation for my daughter....I even kissed the wall when I got home! Until someone walks in your shoes they have no idea what it is like, I did it for one day no less the rest of your life....
 
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July 6, 2006, 8:04 am PDT

Men can be jerks!

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Like I have always said it takes two to make a baby.  You should not be responsible for all the work!  I am a mother of three and I expect my husband to do his share and I don't even need to ask.  But if he was just laying around and partying with his friends and leaving the kids with me 24/7,  he would be out the door.  Dont get me wrong I love my husband, but there is a level of respect that he needs to be showing you and your children.  He wanted to have his fun well he needs to take responsible for what happens!  Good Luck!! 

First of all, I have been married before and have 1 child from that marriage. My 2nd husband did not want more children and said one was enough. Had I had more, I know I would bear all of the responsiblity, it is hard to force it on someone else. I have a wonderful husband, but he likes his free time, so therefore we did not have anymore!  Your husband will have to pay so much money for child support for 3 kids he would be living in a tent. I would remind him of that and then give him chores like a child to do to help out with the kids!    

 

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