Messages By: kmarshar43

THERE ARE THOSE WHO THINK THAT ONLINE DATING HAS IT FLAWS. FOR ME UNFORTUNATELY I HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE. DUE TO SLOW REFLEXES/ COORDINATION FROM BIRTH I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO DRIVE, QUITE FRANKLY THAT DOES NOTY MAKE ME FEEL REAL GOOD BEING SINGLE & NOT KNOWING HOW TO DRIVE BUT I HAVE TO RELY ON THE RESOURCES THAT ARE AVAILABLE TO ME. 

I'M ASHAMED TO ADMIT THIS, BUT I HVAE GOTTEN INTO AS DEBT PROBLEM 4 YRS AGO TO NO FAULT BUT MY OWN.....BECAUSE OF MY INCAPABILITY TO SAY "NO" AT THAT POINT. SHER HAD A  BEAUTFUL 3 YR OLD DAUGHTER, ONE THAT WOULD MELT YOUR HEART AT AN INSTANT. I WANTED TO DO EVERYTHING FOR THEM.......ALL BECAUSE OF MY INCAPABILITY OF SAYING NO. I HAVE ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT IT IS BETTER TO GIVE THAN TO RECEIVE & THAT IS WHERE MY PROBLEM CAME IN. 

ONLINE DATING DOES HAVE ITS FLAWS IF USED INCORRECTLY. HOWEVER BY USING COMMON SENSE AND GOOD JUDGEMENT ONLINE DATING CAN BE A VERY HELPFUL TOOL TO GETTING TO KNOW SOME ONE. 

i WELCOME ALL REPLIES, COMMENTS TO THIS MESSAGE. 

I MYSELF COME FROM A VERY STRICT ILLAFFECTIONATE FAMILY UPBRINGING. ALL THROUGHOUT MY CHILDHOOD I WOULD NEVER SEE MY PARENTS SHOW AFFECTION TOWARDS ME OR EVEN TO THEMSELVES FOR THAT MATTER. NOW WHEN THEY ARE OUT IN A CROWD AROUND THEIR PEERS THEY SHAKE HANDS WITH THEM, HUG THEM. ETC. WHEN IT GETS TO A 1-1 SITUATION THOUGH THE AFFECTION IS NOT THERE. WHEN YOU ARE BROUGHT UP AROUND THIS YOU BEGIN TO THINK, 'GEE, I GUESS SHOWING AFFECTION IS EITHER AGAINST OUR RELIGIOUS BELIEFS OR AGAINST THE LAW." 

THROUGHOUT THE YEARS I HAVE LUCKILY BEEN ABLE TO BREAK OUT OF THAT MOLD. I SAY THIS TO MENTION ONE THING TO YOU PARENTS... PLEASE DO NOT BE ASHAMED TO SHOW AFFECTION TO YOUR MATE OR EVEN YOUR CHILDREN. 

AS ALWAYS, ALL COMMENTS, REPLIES ARE WELCOMED. 

IT IS QUITE OBVIOUS THAT THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR FROM YOUR NEPHEW CAN NOT BE ALLOWED TO CONTINUE. I REALIZE THAT THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMING UP BUT YOUR FIRST PRIORITY HAS GOT TO BE THE SAFETY AND WELL BEING OF YOUR OWN CHILD...THE PARENTS QUITE OBVIOUSLY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO DISCIPLINE THE NEPHEW FOR HIM TO BE ABLE TO KEEP DOING THIS....   IF TALKING TO THE PARENTS LETTUING THEM KNOW HOW MUCH THIS CONCERNS YOU THEN I HAVE A FEELING THAT YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM THEM. 

I AM A 43 YR OLD MALE, WHO WAS 2 YRS AGO DIANOSED WITH DIABETES. TYPE 2 DIABETES TO BE TREATED WITH DIET AND MEDS. THANK GOODNESS I DO NOT HAVE TO RELY ON INSULLIN AT THIS POINT... THE HARDEST PART FOR ME ARE THE DIET AND THE MEDICATION, BECAUSE THE MEDICATION COSTS ARE SO APPAULINGLY HIGH AT THIS POINT THAT I'M HAVING TO GO THROUGH A MAIL ORDER PRESCRIPTION PROGRAM. FOR EXAMPLE, A RETAIL PHARMACY  WANTED $35 FOR A 30 DAY SUPPLY OF MEDICATION. HOWEVER, WHEN I LOOKED INTO THE MAIL ORDER DRUG PLAN THROUGH MY INSURANCE CARRIER THEY WANTED THE SAME PRICE BUT FOR A 90 DAY SUPPLY. 

I WOULD REALLY AND TRULY LIKE SOME ADVICE ON DIETING, MONITORING, ETC. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME.