Quote From: traceeAbove all else know that you already have the best part of him. U have 2 beautiful kids, well, almost 2. Men mature alot slower than women but thats in no way an excuse to dodge outta your responsiblities. In my opinion I think u should you should just let the selfish fool go. Right now u really do think u need him around but by reading your entry your gunna do just fine on your own. Your so much stronger than u think. Just know that "This to shall pass" I don't know where that saying comes from but its my favorite. When u get overwhelmed just tell yourself that.
I totally agree. He doesn't seem like he's ready yet, sorry to say. I know that its not fair that he gets to decide, but it's his loss. Sometimes it's best to just let him go. If you're not happy then your children can't be happy either. When my daughter was 2 months old, I was 18, her father passed away from drinking and driving over 100 mph. We were together for almost 3 years and he was my life. But, he was always treating me badly and we never got along. I thought that was how I was supposed to be treated. When he died I thought that my life was over. I went into depression and probably wouldn't have made it with out my little girl. I also found out after he was gone that he cheated on me more times than I can count. He probably would have done the same thing that your boyfriend is doing now. In a way I am relieved that I don't have to deal with all of the bull any more. Anyways my point is that everything happens for a reason even though you may not see it right away. I know now that God took him out of my life so I can raise my daughter the right way and teach her not to let people treat her badly.
My advice to you is to stand up for yourself and don't let him make your decisions for you. You should definitely let him go and file for child support. You will see that you are a lot stronger than you think. First find yourself and then you will find a man that will be willing to be the role model your children need. I wish you the best and I will pray for you. God bless.
