Messages By: mlcole

This mother, by going on national T.V. and admitting that she is overwhelmed to the point of abusing her child, is making a step in the right direction.  It's the mother that can't admit she is out out of control and hides the fact that is a real danger to her children.  This mother wants help and is willing to receive it.  Good for her.  She is to be commended for her honesty. 

You are correct that violence from one's parent has a life-long lasting affect.  It has for me. 

My mother never admitted she was an abusive parent and denies to this day that she ever hit me with a belt, extension cord, hair brushes, etc., or was so destructively verbally abusive, and I wasn't mentally handicapped and a challenge like this woman's daughter is, although no excuse justifies taking out your frustrations on a child.  I so hated my upbringing that I do not use corporal punishment with my child nor do I call him names.  Part of being a parent and an adult is making choices.  I have made a choice not to react in anger and strike another.  I will admit that it is hard to do at times, but ultimately I am the one that is in control of my emotions.  I think this mother is on the right track just by admitting she has a problem, and I wish her well in getting help.