Quote From: aloohaAloha,
How do you know if you are that annoying family member? My husband's family is quite and doesn't like to be touched. My family is the opposite ... we laugh, talk loud, and hug a lot. Now I can not be like them and they can not be like me so how do I know if I get on their nerves?
Aloha,
Hula Girl Leilani
hello,
first of all you should never change yourself to make someone else happy, always be yourself. Here is some examples, If they ignore you when someone else is around and they talk to others but not you. If you walk into the room and they act rudely and don't seem to greet you. Or if you laugh outloud and they turn up the t.v. I know how you feel I am in the same situation and you pretty much know when they are tired of you. The only thing I know to tell you is maybe tone yourself down a little this might help, and keep all of the hugs to your husband. There is a lot of people out there that do not like to be hugged. It is their personal space and they feel offended if you disrupt that space.
Hope this helps out a little.
mandee_26
