Messages By: claudebrown

I am really sad about my husbands lack of concern about our non-existent sex life. we have had sex two times in the last three months. The last two encounters occured only because I asked. I have talked to him about this problem and my feelings several times. His response have been to not say anything and the last time I asked him to make love to me he said he had a back ache.I feel unloved, unwanted and he seem to not care. We have been married for four years and together for eight years. This have happened several times before in our relationship. I think  he was at the time involved with someone else and believe this may be the problem now. He moved out of the house for a year during one of these times and when we got back together he promised to never leave home again. I wonder if there is someone else.  Another thing he does that really give me hope and at the same time make me want to walk out is his ability to kiss me before he leaves home and when he return. I also do the same when I leave and return home but I do not want a roomate. I want a husband. I feel like he is pushing me out. Should I leave home? I don't want to do this but if I don't do something he will jump in and out of the relationship whenever he pleases.  I don't know what to do.