Messages By: Needbehappy

 I have 18 1/2 year old daughter who has been so responsible, sensible young lady. She is my oldest of four children.  However, lately she has out to explore. She insisted on hanging out with friends late til 3am even sleepover there. I really trusted her. She was brought up in strict environment at home, I thought it will make it better for her to let her, eventhough I checked with friends that everything will be ok. I insisted over and over that she promises me "no drinking,drugs and sex". I think her partying involves weed smoking, drinking alcohol and could even be sex. I am terrified. Please advise on how to approach the situation. Terrified and shocked.

 

 

I've been married for 27 years and been cheated on throughout, but didn't know, denial, gone insane with raising children. He took full advantage and took me for granted that i would never leave.  I finally had the nerves to serve papers on him.  It's been two weeks, he's been in a shock and showing total 180 degrees changes or at least pretending to be.  Now he is on a trip and hooking with a young female for dinner and who knows what else.  I can't believe what he is saying on the phone to patch things up with me, yet still carrying on his usual routine.  Very anxious for this evening, how do i cope?

 My story similar, been married 27 years. Worried out of my mind, with no money, didn't want to destroy the family for sake of 4 children.  Two weeks ago, I served him with papers, he was surprised as hell.  Now, acting like a pussycat.  If you don't want to live in that situation, must change it and do what needs to be done.  That bastard need a harsh lesson in his life.