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July 30, 2006, 4:04 pm PDT

teens drinking & smoking

 I have 18 1/2 year old daughter who has been so responsible, sensible young lady. She is my oldest of four children.  However, lately she has out to explore. She insisted on hanging out with friends late til 3am even sleepover there. I really trusted her. She was brought up in strict environment at home, I thought it will make it better for her to let her, eventhough I checked with friends that everything will be ok. I insisted over and over that she promises me "no drinking,drugs and sex". I think her partying involves weed smoking, drinking alcohol and could even be sex. I am terrified. Please advise on how to approach the situation. Terrified and shocked.
 
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November 5, 2007, 10:06 pm PST

kristie in 11-5-07 daddy dispute

 
 
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November 5, 2007, 10:13 pm PST

What is Kristie doing having sex with a man she doesn't even know well. Moreover, having a baby. What did she think a man would say that he is married. My husband is out there all the time doing this stuff. It sickens me think that there are women so re

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February 19, 2008, 1:37 pm PST

support for cheated on spouse

I've been married for 27 years and been cheated on throughout, but didn't know, denial, gone insane with raising children. He took full advantage and took me for granted that i would never leave.  I finally had the nerves to serve papers on him.  It's been two weeks, he's been in a shock and showing total 180 degrees changes or at least pretending to be.  Now he is on a trip and hooking with a young female for dinner and who knows what else.  I can't believe what he is saying on the phone to patch things up with me, yet still carrying on his usual routine.  Very anxious for this evening, how do i cope?
 
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February 23, 2008, 3:55 pm PST

I've been there

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I also wanted to say or ask, how can he expect me to live the rest of our lives without any intimacy? Is it fair? i honestly don't know if I could live for another 30 or 40yrs like I am. By the way I am 46yrs old/young. It might sound stupid but I feel I need affection, I would like to have sex with my husband, I would like him to want me. It hurts so much when I think that he doesn't want me but he wanted the other women. My mind is turning somersaults trying to decide what to do. I have always loved him but I am at the stage now that I don't like him very much. It would be really hard for me starting over again. I don't work and I don't know what to do.
 My story similar, been married 27 years. Worried out of my mind, with no money, didn't want to destroy the family for sake of 4 children.  Two weeks ago, I served him with papers, he was surprised as hell.  Now, acting like a pussycat.  If you don't want to live in that situation, must change it and do what needs to be done.  That bastard need a harsh lesson in his life.
 

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