My divorce was final this week. It was my second marriage. Marriage is a big commitment. You feel so in love, but eventually all that lust fades away and all you have left is the real person you married. If you aren't paying attention, the person you married becomes someone totally different. Both of my marriages were abusive, physically and verbally. But there were warning signs. I ignored them though. Thought that those things would just go away. I didn't respect myself enough to feel more deserving. Even if the marriage isn't physically abusive, verbal abuse will destroy one just as fast. If you love someone, they do not deserve to be spoke to in a hurtful, insulting way...NO MATTER WHAT! You can never take back what you say. You can say you are sorry and that you didn't mean it......but believe me, it isn't forgotten. The scars stay there. So if you love someone and really respect them.....you won't treat them that way. If they are treating you that way....Do Not Put Up With It!
