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November 7, 2005, 8:53 pm PST
Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
Quote From: qtpie28hello.I gave my first daughter to my mom and step-dad.It was one of the worst mistakes I have ever made.They told me how great it would be and that I could see her whenever I wanted,I havent seen my now 9 year old daughter for about 5 years.I am not allowed to call her,write to her or even think about her.Thats what I was told.I also gave my son to my ex fiances parents because we didnt have the finances to care for him.The difference is that I get to talk to him on a regular basis.He is spoiled rotten.I miss my kids and the point is,if I could do it again I would never give them to thier grandparents.I would have raised them myself. The question here is why didn't you raise them yourself? I'm sure there's more to this than they took them away from you. You say that you were told you can't write her or phone her or even think about her. Who told you this? A Judge in a court order? What I see in this post is someone who gave up 2 of her children with out any explanation. Tell us more and maybe we can be of some help.
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