I found out 6 months ago that my husband had been cheating on me. We are married over 30 years. He became friendly with a woman and after a long time they began an affair which has lasted over 3 years. He ended it when I found out, and since then he has done everything to make amends. However there are so many questions that I have, and he is getting very tired of answering them, he says it is time to move on. I just do not believe that he has told me the whole truth and while I do not think he is seeing her at the moment , i think in time they may meet and it will start all over We live so near to each other. I keep wanting to go and ask her her side of the story and then I stop myself. What do others think, should I go and ask her or should I leave it. I am so upset and I feel so betrayed by my husband and I want to move on and forgive but I am stuck. I can think of nothing else but his betrayal of me and my family. H e swears it is all over but how do I know.
What experiences do other wives have about talking to the "Other Woman"
