Messages By: kinksfan

 I've just turned 31 at the end of Last Month.  I've been living with my Folks up until now.  They're good people, but I'm not charged enough Rent, though I do pay some.  I feel that it's time for me to spread my Wings.  I have Aspergers and Depression, but that's no excuse for me not to have a subsidized Appartment of my own.

 Hi Nichelle,

I've watched your story last Thursday.  I was a little disturbed by the Bathroon Footage, because I saw the fear in your Daughter's face.  I commend you for seeking help with your situation.  I know where you're comming from.  I was a Difficult Child myself.  My Family has been dealing with my Aspergers for 31 years, now.  I drove them nuts as a Child.  I had my little Fixations and Rituals.  I even had my own Little Rules.  If anybody broke one of my rules, I gave them a lecture.  I haven't completly grown out of my Condition.  I've been fixated on London for most of my life and I was going off about how I get grumpy if I can't have my Afternoon Tea, yesterday.  I was even called a Typical Londoner by a member of my Family.  I have faith that you will get all the help that you need.  It's hard to ask for help, but the effort pays off when you get it.

 I'm Single and happy.  I've never had a Boyfriend and I don't plan on finding one, anytime soon.  I value my Freedom and Independence very much.  I've read the Horror Stories in the paper and I've seen them on the Evening News.  I've also had a bad experience with a guy in College that I've tried to be really close friends with.  I'm doing fine without a Love Mate.

 I'm worried that my Sister might become Annorexic.  When she comes over for Dinner, she puts very little food on her plate.  Than after she eats, she says, "I'm stuffed!  Look at my Big Belly!"  I shake my head when it happens, because I fear that it can turn into something more.

 I feel that hobbies and activities should be fun for Kids.  I do not feel that Kids should be punnished if they have a bad performance.  If your Kid doesn't seem to be performing at his/her best, than you should ask them if they really want to continue.  Kids should choose their own activities and they should be able to quit and persue other ones at any time. 

Oh... And I think that 4 Years Old is a bit young for a Little Girl to be in Beauty Pagents.  That Little Girl looked like a Barbie Doll.  Let Kids be Kids.

 I'm in a very unique situation.  I'm on a Disability Pension.  I get $850 a Month and I'm saving up for a Down Payment to buy a Subsidized Appartment in Western Canada.  I give my Parents $250 a Month for Rent and Cable.  I plan a Budget and make a goal to set aside $300 a Month towards my Down Payment.  The problem is that I have Spending Leaks and I only end up with only $150 to $200 left over by the time I get my next Cheque.  What can I do to stop that from happening? 

 That's what I've been told my whole life.  I didn't believe it, until the Year 2000.  Before that, I was keeping up with the latest colours in the way of shirts and the latest trends in the way of Jeans and Pants.  Than one day, I've worn the colours of the Union Jack to the Club that I go to and people were swarming around me like Flies.  I was looking at some funky Watches just a week ago.  There was a Groovy rainbow of colours to choose from.  Than I took a look at my Union Jack watch and decided not to buy a new one.  I also recall going to my Club for a Christmas Party last December wearing one of my Velvet Suits.  The Austin Powers type with the tapered legs.  People were gathered around me, again.  It's very true.  Just be yourself, than everyone will like you.

 My Canadian family is friends with a family that lives down in California.  Whenever both of our families get together, we spend the Evenings that we have together, goofing off.  I feel that it's good to have fun.  It helps to keep things in perspective.

 Watching the segment with the 5 year old girl has really freaked me out.  If I had a 5 year old, he/she would never do that, because I would have already told the child all the things that they should do.  However I reckon that the parents of the little girl were on your show to get the tools that they needed to teach her Stranger Danger.

I'll be watching all three shows.  Dr Phil, I admire you.  It makes me feel good when I see people like you helping the people who really need it.