I am so glad I found this message board because it is something that I have been dealing with. I am single and have never been married, nor do I have any kids. I have been in relationships but always come out wishing I had never gotten into them. I guess I am too independent. I just don't feel that I am a "needy" person. My 2 best friends can't be alone and are always frustrated because they can't find or keep a man around. They are constantly stressed out or fighting with their boyfrriends. I always sacasticlaly tell them "Gee you're having such a good time, maybe I need a boyfriend too". They are so desperate sometimes its very sad to watch them. While they are so busy trying to find somebody I feel that they are missing out on so many other things in life. But I suppose they think I am missing out on something too. I just don't want to spend all my time going from bar to bar looking for somebody. I don't think you're going to find what you want there either. And I don't want to go on-line either. That scares me. One of my friends has met some guys on there. She says they're nice, but I don't have a good feeling about doing anything like that.
I guess I just want someone to tell me if I am the one whose missing out or what?