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November 15, 2005, 9:43 am PST

wow! what a show!

  

   tues show was awesome. i cried. i feel for all of these women and hope they find some sense of peace in their life. i've never had things so horrible happen to me. i can't imagine how they feel. i can understand now how angry someone can get that they'de almost want to kill you. i never understood how that happens. some of these women had things thrown in their faces over and over again. i wish they'de thought to take it out on the hubands by saying "i'll take everything you have" instead. thank gosh for people like dr phil in this world. i really think he made a difference... 

 
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November 15, 2005, 10:14 am PST

wow! what a great show!

  

   what an emotional show today about the 4 women. i cried. i really feel for these women. i sure hope they are able to find some sense of peace in their life soon. i've never been through such horrible abuse and can't imagine how these women feel. i now understand why some of these kind of marriages end in tradgedy. pam was mentally abused so bad and had it thrown in her face that she was being cheated on etc. thank god she didn't let her anger take her to crazy places with that man. atleast she's not in jail over killing that b*****d. she should have told him it's ok i'll take everything you have and moved on. easy for me to say i know. well thank gosh for people like phil. i hope he's able to help ya'll get on with your life. i can't wait to see the follow up show... 

 
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November 15, 2005, 10:21 am PST

i know what ya mean...

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As someone who understands what is like to go through this, I found the thing which makes it so hard to move on is the anger that never seems to die. It took me years to get over the anger and only then could I move forward. The anger keeps you stuck. 

  

To all of you who say these women should quit whining and just move on with your life, you just don't get how hard that is when you are not strong emotionally. 

  

Dr. Phil needs to show them how to deal with the anger and resentment and I hope we see that today. I really didn't get his telling them they were boring him - was that necessary or helpful in any way? I think he is trying to motivate them but is more anger the way to do it? 

  

Can't wait to see. 

  

  

   i love dr phil and admire his advice. i'll have to agree with you on phil saying ya'll are freakin boring me. that was rather harsh. i think he was trying to motivate them and get them mad. hopefully it worked. i was not impressed with that comment either. i was rather shocked to hear him talk to his guests like that. i'm sure dr phil has a reason for it though... 

 
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November 15, 2005, 10:33 am PST

hey you!

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As soon as I saw the preview for this show, I was crying.  My husband moved out three weeks ago and doesn't know if he wants to stay married or not.  I feel so delicate right now.  Do you think this show would still help?  Right now, I feel like anything I do that has to do with divorce is just giving up, but yet, I know I'm not in control of this situation at all.  I'm a stay-at-home mom with two children (15 & 10) with not much of a support system where I live because I moved here seven years ago so he could be close to his family.  I'm alone and scared and so very depressed.

  

  

   hey you, hang in there ok. i know it's impossible for you to see right now, but there are many wonderful people out there. maybe you got matched up with the wrong one. you be strong and take care of those kids. when you least expect it, someone may pop in your life and show you how wonderful love is. as for now, i wish you luck in moving foward , not backward, and taking care of yourself. you'll be ok... 

 
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November 23, 2005, 10:40 am PST

amazing mary!

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WOW!  Mary, you are AMAZING!   You carry on with your day-to-day life, despite your illness.  That in itself,  is a major VICTORY!  You keep hangin' in there and God Bless You!!

  

    i have to tell you mary that i commend your courage as well. you're truly amazing and i know a lot of other people think so too. thanx for making the world aware of your illness. i know i understand it better now. i think you also have a great man on your side too. good luck to ya'll.  

 
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January 18, 2006, 5:38 pm PST

marlon, come to your senses!

   for once i don't think dr. phil was hard enough on this girl shamika. he was too hard on marlon. he will never satisfy this high maitenance women. marlon seems like a hopeless romantic. he needs to be loved and appreciated as a man and a lover. she doesn't know what she has. i don't believe it was cool to get another bank account without telling marlon either. that's her " i'm an independant women and what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine bullcrap." get used to it marlon if you continue to be with this woman. you need to drop her butt and watch her come crying back because she'll never find anything better...
 
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January 18, 2006, 5:50 pm PST

better be having that party!

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 No need to shout with thet CAPS...lol!!!   Ruff..why are you so resentful?  So full of hate...so full of rage?  You'd like to see yet another couple in America added to the list of statistics of divorcees?  It's not that type of party with Michelle and I.  Wow...you almost sound like someone I used to know...had to cut 'er loose because she was a stalker and had her friends stalk me as well.  I don't consider myself and prize, but I do consider myself a great catch and I had to go thru those past experiences to know what I wanted and it just so happend that Michelle was there and I didn't even know it.  As I told your friend JoJo...you're entitled to your opinions agreed or disagreed, but to wish divorce on someone because of something that has absolutely nothing to do with you is shameful....you sound single...or just hurt "pallie"...Told one viewer earlier that my life is really like an open book...just took it for granted that my wife would have no problem with these few people.  Again...she knows "of them" but never met them in person...all that changes in a few days.

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    no woman in their right mind would put up with what you're doing. your woman should meet everyone of these ladies. maybe at the "party" the ladies will meet the other ladies and you'll have no ladies. your woman's needs should be number 1. obviously they're not... hope you can change for michelle's sake... 

 
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January 23, 2006, 8:56 am PST

Grandma too hott???

    

   i have to say i agree with dr. phil. there is a big difference between 60 yrs of age to 80, unlike his 27 to 47. your body deteriorates much more quickly at audry's rate. yeah she's got a cute and spunkiness to her, i'll give her that... but she is in denial if she thinks this relationship will be long term. she's gonna get hurt when he throws her back after she's gotten really old. she can barely even smile, she's had so much plasic surgery, and she thinks she's aging gracefully. kudos to her wanting to be youthful and having a youthful spirit but stop being so naive.... 

 
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January 23, 2006, 9:05 am PST

bobby losing 140 lbs...

  

     i think bobby is really craving the attention that she never got when she was a larger person. i've never been chunky or obese so i don't know how it feels. i do know people who are fat get treated differently than those that are skinny. props to you losing all that weight! i think you should really have some compassion for your man and how he feels. he feels very jealous that the tables are turned. i'm sure he appreciates how great you look . when other men do disrespectful things to him involving you, he doesn't know how to deal with it. he's never had to deal with that. i think you rub it in his face a bit with all the flirting. if you want this relationship to work you'll have to realize that your husband knows you look great and that's all that should matter. other people looking at you is a good feeling too but flirting with that is not right. good luck to both of you. 

 
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February 8, 2006, 12:10 pm PST

about amanda...

  

    i feel for amanda... i had problems with my mother when i was growing up too. i was a runaway many of times. my mother likes to think i was a bad kid and not take any responsability for anything. we are a reflection of how we are raised. i think this mother is doing the same. something went wrong in this girls life that has got her spinning out of control. she ran away because living conditions are too bad. when they get her back they wanna do the same stuff. they don't take the time to really talk to her, work out something where she can see the boyfriend or even get a psychologist for that matter. they'de rather just give up on her and send her to a home. she'll never forget that either. by taking her phone that she bought, that's just gonna piss her off! duh... i think this child is missing the love and nurturing she needs. 

  

  

 

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