Messages By: newmomy2b2

   tues show was awesome. i cried. i feel for all of these women and hope they find some sense of peace in their life. i've never had things so horrible happen to me. i can't imagine how they feel. i can understand now how angry someone can get that they'de almost want to kill you. i never understood how that happens. some of these women had things thrown in their faces over and over again. i wish they'de thought to take it out on the hubands by saying "i'll take everything you have" instead. thank gosh for people like dr phil in this world. i really think he made a difference... 

   what an emotional show today about the 4 women. i cried. i really feel for these women. i sure hope they are able to find some sense of peace in their life soon. i've never been through such horrible abuse and can't imagine how these women feel. i now understand why some of these kind of marriages end in tradgedy. pam was mentally abused so bad and had it thrown in her face that she was being cheated on etc. thank god she didn't let her anger take her to crazy places with that man. atleast she's not in jail over killing that b*****d. she should have told him it's ok i'll take everything you have and moved on. easy for me to say i know. well thank gosh for people like phil. i hope he's able to help ya'll get on with your life. i can't wait to see the follow up show... 

   i love dr phil and admire his advice. i'll have to agree with you on phil saying ya'll are freakin boring me. that was rather harsh. i think he was trying to motivate them and get them mad. hopefully it worked. i was not impressed with that comment either. i was rather shocked to hear him talk to his guests like that. i'm sure dr phil has a reason for it though... 

   hey you, hang in there ok. i know it's impossible for you to see right now, but there are many wonderful people out there. maybe you got matched up with the wrong one. you be strong and take care of those kids. when you least expect it, someone may pop in your life and show you how wonderful love is. as for now, i wish you luck in moving foward , not backward, and taking care of yourself. you'll be ok... 

    i have to tell you mary that i commend your courage as well. you're truly amazing and i know a lot of other people think so too. thanx for making the world aware of your illness. i know i understand it better now. i think you also have a great man on your side too. good luck to ya'll.  

    no woman in their right mind would put up with what you're doing. your woman should meet everyone of these ladies. maybe at the "party" the ladies will meet the other ladies and you'll have no ladies. your woman's needs should be number 1. obviously they're not... hope you can change for michelle's sake... 

   i have to say i agree with dr. phil. there is a big difference between 60 yrs of age to 80, unlike his 27 to 47. your body deteriorates much more quickly at audry's rate. yeah she's got a cute and spunkiness to her, i'll give her that... but she is in denial if she thinks this relationship will be long term. she's gonna get hurt when he throws her back after she's gotten really old. she can barely even smile, she's had so much plasic surgery, and she thinks she's aging gracefully. kudos to her wanting to be youthful and having a youthful spirit but stop being so naive.... 

     i think bobby is really craving the attention that she never got when she was a larger person. i've never been chunky or obese so i don't know how it feels. i do know people who are fat get treated differently than those that are skinny. props to you losing all that weight! i think you should really have some compassion for your man and how he feels. he feels very jealous that the tables are turned. i'm sure he appreciates how great you look . when other men do disrespectful things to him involving you, he doesn't know how to deal with it. he's never had to deal with that. i think you rub it in his face a bit with all the flirting. if you want this relationship to work you'll have to realize that your husband knows you look great and that's all that should matter. other people looking at you is a good feeling too but flirting with that is not right. good luck to both of you. 

    i feel for amanda... i had problems with my mother when i was growing up too. i was a runaway many of times. my mother likes to think i was a bad kid and not take any responsability for anything. we are a reflection of how we are raised. i think this mother is doing the same. something went wrong in this girls life that has got her spinning out of control. she ran away because living conditions are too bad. when they get her back they wanna do the same stuff. they don't take the time to really talk to her, work out something where she can see the boyfriend or even get a psychologist for that matter. they'de rather just give up on her and send her to a home. she'll never forget that either. by taking her phone that she bought, that's just gonna piss her off! duh... i think this child is missing the love and nurturing she needs.