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November 20, 2005, 12:24 am PST

RE I'm PREGNANT!

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Hi my friend was 17 when she had a baby, and she was very nervous too. She wasn't sure if she'd be a good mother or a bad mother, or if she could financailly take care of her son. Well in the long run it all worked out! she has support from welfare, and family, and she's doing really good! Everyone's a good mother, maybe nto at everything, but that's something we all have to work on right? I'm glad you're married to your son's father that's going to make your family an easier experience! Well best of luck and congratulations to you and your husband

  I had a baby boy when i was 18 It was hard at first. Still is at times. i was nervous too but i realized that after he was born that i have another life that im responnisable for now he is a year old and im glat that i had him . You will have your ups and downs every mother dose, as long as you give your baby all the love that you have everything will work out .. I am now 20 and trying to have another baby. I hope that everything works out for you. 

 
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November 20, 2005, 12:34 am PST

how far apart should i have another

   I'm 20, i have a one year old son. I was thinking about having another i want them to be close in age. While my husband thinks that its too soon. See my son was born 7 weeks early i almost lost him.. The doctors told me that if i do have another one it might come early to. That scares me because i almost lost my son. i have has one miscarriage since he was born but it was in my tubes there was nothing that i could do to help it.  I just want one more then I'm done i have 8 brothers and sisters 9 including me. I don't want a big family. Where me and my husband disagree is that he only wants one and no more i told him it was my choice not his. Which is wrong to say i know . But how soon is too soon? What should i do just live with the one i have and never have another baby.  I realized the other day when my son asked me mom baby please as he was touching my tummy.. I think that my son would enjoy having a brother or sister to play with.. HOW do i change my husbands mind on having another baby? Anyone have any advice for me let me know please 

 

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