Messages By: pattywagon

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November 19, 2005, 2:18 pm PST

11/21 Childhood Secrets

Recently my daughter revealed (after holding it in for a year and suffering anxiety attacks) that one of her cousins touched her inappropriately.  I had an extremely close relationship with all of my sisters until my daughter revealed this.  [I thank God that my daughter finally spoke up, that alone has helped her immensely.]  Unfortunately, my nephew is denying it and  my sister does not believe my daughter........which to me is like adding salt to a wound.  This whole event has effected our entire family.  Other family members, while they might believe it happened, are treating me and acting like I am the one who did wrong by reporting it.  I wanted to deal with it through counseling but my sister never followed through and doing nothing wasn't an option for me or my daughter.  Please help.
 
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November 21, 2005, 7:31 pm PST

Is there hope?

I am presently dealing with the reprecussions of finding out that my 13 year old daughter was inappropiately touched by her cousin, who is a year older than her.  Some family members (in particular my sisters) are having trouble believing and dealing with it and are treating us like we are the ones who have done wrong.  My therapist has told me that family relationships can actually be strenghtened when the truth finally comes out and love prevails.  Can anyone atest to this?  Right now it seems as though things will never change for the better. 

 

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