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September 14, 2007, 4:29 pm PDT
Psycho Nut
I was pretty disgusted after watching both parts . I thought that I should wait until I saw both episodes to give everyone the benefit of the doubt before speaking my mind. I must say that it is beyond me how Brandon is a firefighter, especially when candidates go through a long process before being selected. He is entrusted with rescuing people/helping people, and while he is attempting to do that, he is unable to help himself.
To Brandon, you are one sick puppy. You are manipulative, a liar, in denial, childish, and narcissistic. Dr. Phil called it when he told you that you were basically full of when it came to just having had that one affair. I could see the LIES in your eyes as you denied the other instances of sexual advances/affairs, along with other things that were brought up. I find it incredibly coincidental that all nannies said the same thing about your abusive behavior towards them. I don't think you will ever change and if by some amazing stroke of luck you DO, then it will take years of therapy and wanting to truly change on your part in order for that to happen. We all go through stuff in life (issues of abandonment, molestation, etc.,) and that is not an excuse to act the way you do. I didn't buy your crying for one instant, and I am sure that a lot of other people didn't either. Amy's parents have every right not to trust you and to want better for their daughter and grandkids. You certainly didn't score any points by bad mouthing Heidi or telling her how "hideous" she looks and that she is a whore. Also, that comment about putting your wife in cement is of serious concern. What made you look like even more of a liar was when you sat there and denied to no end that Amy and Heidi had corroborated not "collaborated" their stories. The lying needs to stop. Like Dr. Phil always says, "You can't change what you don't acknowledge." So start acknowledging the stuff you said from now on and maybe you will earn some integrity.
To Amy, I think a lot of hard work lies ahead of you. There is so much healing you need to do. Your focus should be on your children. However, you need to get through this painful ordeal and on understanding why you should not be in a relationship with this man so that you don't repeat the same mistakes and so that you can give your kids a better environment. You have a duty to protect your children. This baloney about him hosing down your daughter is completely unacceptable and you should not have EVER allowed that to happen. Don't stay in this marriage because you want to continue being a stay at home mom. Do whatever it takes to get yourself back on your feet. If it means that you have to work midnights to feed your kids, put a roof over their heads, in order to spend time with them during the day time, then so be it. Your priority should be your kids and on keeping them SAFE and not on having sex with some pyscho nut hubby that is broken beyond repair at this point in time.
To Heidi, you need to back off. It is not your job to keep sticking your nose in Amy's business and telling her the sky is blue when in reality it is gray. You get what I'm saying? Although I am sure you mean well, it is a bit much on your part. Also, I don't think you're hideous. You are an articulate and attractive lady, more so than Amy.
To Amy's parents, I am sorry about everything your daughter has put you through and is still putting you through. I hope that you can find the strength to keep hanging in there for the sake of your daughter and grandkids.
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