Me and my boyfriend have been together off and on for five years. I say that because in high school we were kind of each others boody calls type of thing. Well we have been together for almost 3 years and lived together for 2. We have 2 kids but live with his parents. We have a house that we have bought but not all fixed enough to live in. We have talked about getting married forever it seems but haven't done it. Sometimes he gets on my nerves alot but i think because i stay at home with the boys right now and then go to night school. Then again we live with his parents and two brothers. Which makes a total of 8 people living in a 4 bedroom house. Its crowded. So i stay pretty stressed out. But i haven't had someone that i could trust in my life to talk about my feelings. So i don't talk about how i feel. His mother keeps pushing us to get married but my mother is all ways negative and says stuff about him or us doing things together. (like getting married or living together) I don't know if we should get married or not because i only want to be married once because my parents are devorced and both have been married often. I know how that feels. But then on his side his parents have been married for 20 years. Only on of his aunts have been divorced and everyone else has been married for 20 or more years. I just want to talk to someone about how i feel or if anyone else has every been this position.
Thanks, for listening.
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