I have recently been diagnosed with cancer and the doctors have advised that I have my children now if I plan to have them. I just got married in June. We have always planned on having children but we wanted to wait until I was out of school. I have a full time job and I'm just taking a class here and there so graduation is not in the near future. I my husband said we should have children now, but I can't help but feel guilty for forcing this on him earlier than planned. He has never made me feel guilty about this but deep down I know that he doesn't want children right now. How do I stop feeling guilty? Does this mean I shouldn't have kids?  
 
Concerned and scared. 
 
Sarah Amador