I have never been molested, but my dad abuses me, and looks at my sisters inappropiatly, plus he also masterbates while looking at porn. molested is a big deal, and when u went to a therapist, but they do not believe you I understand fully on how furious you got. My counselor will not help me or get me a restraining order, and my dad goes against me, soo in a way, we are kind of inthe same boat. THat was a horrible thing that happened to you, and you will never get past it. But, i am all for you, i think that you did the right thing by not taking care of your grandma. You and me both grew/grow in a home where the parents/adults are mentally messed up. Just be glad you can get out of the house! Well, talk to someone, and ask for guidence.
~ Good Luck