Shame on the Granddaughter and the Mother. I say "way to go Girl" to the Grandmother. Stand your ground. If the material things mean more to them than the time spent with you, then so be it. But let me tell you, once you lose your parents no amount of material objects will ever replace the strong shoulder and the unconditional love of a parent nor will it bring them back. There is no replacement. I wish the Mother and Granddaughter would stop worrying about their "inheritance" and focus more of what their Mother/Grandmother needs right now. I lost my parents a few years back. My father died first and then my mother. As far as inheritance, phooey on it, they didn't have much but what they did have was split among the children as Mother saw fit. No, I didn't get the furniture, land or other things that I would love to have but it was my Mother's wishes and I accepted it. She left me the most precious gift of all and that was memories I cherish every day. I do hope you both will open your eyes and your hearts to the one person that cares the most about you.
