Quote From: jenspointI am so tired of people generalizing that Dad's do not want to be in their kids' lives, and if they do try.. they get deemed to be doing it only to get out of paying child support. You just don't hear about the good dad's that visit their kids regularly, take an active role in their lives, and pay their child support because nobody is complaining about those dads. I think there are a lot of moms out there that keep their kids from visiting their dads more often so they can get as much child support as they possibly can. I am a mom, and I hear moms at the park and gym openly talking about this, so I know it is true!! I just sit there and listen to women giving each other advice on how to get more child support! It's just sick and wrong, the same as any dad's trying to get out of paying it. But if there are going to be complaints, then the whole story should be told!
Do you have weeks to understand my story. Are you going through the same issue. You may be one of the lucky mother's that father respect their child's mother and their children. But what about us women that don't have the same respect.
For you to reply stating you are tired of hearing mother's complain about father's not wanting to be in their child lives, and they do try. Well what is a father too you? Just someone that visit their children and negatively impacts the child mother to them. If so I think you have you issue crossed.
Father too me is everything a mother. Someone that takes care of their child from all aspects including finances. Caring, loving, and protecting. Do you know my background? Do you know my child's father's background. Honestly I didn't think you did. I asked for help not ignorance.
Unless you are in a similar situation honestly, you have no room to comment. Yet this America and Freedom of Speech is required.
I am tired of people accusing hard working mothers bending over backwards to make sure their child has everything they need, that they want more child support. Obviously you are as slow as my ex. It is not the mother that configures Child Support it is the state and the earnings the fathers make. NOT US. HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO SAY THAT. IT IS NOT THE MOTHERS. HELLO GET WITH SOCIETY.
