Messages By: female24

I have a question, I have this person, I guess we would be friends I dont think so but anyways, her mom babysat me when I was a baby, now I am 23, but her daughter and I became friends, not by choice, I have never since I got older showed any interest in really being her friend, but we live in a small town you know. So anyways she always calls me and I am very nice to her, and I really ...well dont like her...you see I was broke down on a backroad one day, out in the country, me and my husband were standing outside the vehicle waiting on my brother to come by and see us. So her (this friend) drove by with her dad and husband in her truck, she barely even waved and kept going, I mean ...then she like wants to call me and things??? What in the world...is wrong with her I wonder. So I could barely  pretend before, every since that happened I just try to avoid her, but she calls all the time, sometimes 3 or 4 tms a day, I know she knows I am home...what do I do, I hate avoiding people like that, because I am not a mean person, I accept alot from people, really probely too much, but I am just confused, should I avoid her or just talk to her, which I think I am beyond that anymore, I have had enough of this "I'll be your friend when I want" friends??? Any advise!!

I have a question, I have this person, I guess we would be friends I dont think so but anyways, her mom babysat me when I was a baby, now I am 23, but her daughter and I became friends, not by choice, I have never since I got older showed any interest in really being her friend, but we live in a small town you know. So anyways she always calls me and I am very nice to her, and I really ...well dont like her...you see I was broke down on a backroad one day, out in the country, me and my husband were standing outside the vehicle waiting on my brother to come by and see us. So her (this friend) drove by with her dad and husband in her truck, she barely even waved and kept going, I mean ...then she like wants to call me and things??? What in the world...is wrong with her I wonder. So I could barely  pretend before, every since that happened I just try to avoid her, but she calls all the time, sometimes 3 or 4 tms a day, I know she knows I am home...what do I do, I hate avoiding people like that, because I am not a mean person, I accept alot from people, really probely too much, but I am just confused, should I avoid her or just talk to her, which I think I am beyond that anymore, I have had enough of this "I'll be your friend when I want" friends??? Any advise!!

I think sometimes that you dont need certain people in your life, maybe you are better off without her, but you have been friends for 18 yrs and understandably that would be hard, maybe you should take a break from her and see how you like it. Good luck with it.