Quote From: monileahHow can it be possible for a 17 year old girl to try to date a 30 year old man in jail,it is not even an option, how are her parents raising her, she is not getting attention and love from her parents enough that she thinks she is going to get from a 30 year old IN JAIL!!!!!. MY GOD!!!!.
I know when you fall in love there is nothing and nobody that will make you change your mind and even more when the parents do not accept the relationship. you always want to be right, and against your parents.
BUT GIRL THERE IS NO "I LOVE YOU ALWAYS" THAT THIS GUY IS GOING TO SAY TO YOU, OR PAINT LOVE AND GREAT FUTURE IN THE CLOUDS, THAT MAKE THIS A BIT RIGHT.
YOU ARE YOUNG PRETTY, NOT IN JAIL!!!!!, AND WITH THE CAPACITY OF DAYING ANY BOY MORE OR LESS YOUR AGE, WHY START BY RUINNING YOUR FUTURE WITH A LOSER!!.
BE REALISTIC!! HE IS A LOSER YOU ARE NOT, IF YOU ARE NOT GETTING ENOUGH LOVE FROM YOUR PARENTS, DON'T LOOK FOR IT LIKE THIS YOU CAN GIVE THE LOVE YOURSELF, TAKE A CLASS OF SOMETHING, DRAW, WRITE, READ EDUCATE YOURSELF.
BUT DO NOT BE THIS DUMMY!! PLEASE!!!. WHEN I WAS 14 I STARTED DATING A 22 YEAR OLD MAN, AND MY MOM DID NOT KNOW, I WAS IN LOVE, I WANTED TO GET MARRIED , AFTER 2 YEARS OF RELATIONSHIP(MY MOM FOUND OUT BY THEN ALMOST KILLS ME) MY MOM THOUGHT IT WAS OVER,THINKING THAT IT WAS REAL LOVE, AND THIS AND THAT ,HE WASN'T IN JAIL AND HE WAS A PROFFESIONNAL DESIGNER, TO MAKE THE STORY SHORT.
A MONTH BEFORE WE WERE GOING TO " GET MARRIED", I WAS GOING TO GO AWAY WITHOUT SAYING ANITHING AND LIVE THE DREAM,BLAH BLAH BLAH. HE NEVER CALLED ME AGAIN, HE HAD BEEN DATING ANOTHER WOMAN ON THE SIDE SHE WAS 29, SHE WAS PREGNANT AND I HAD NO CLUE.HE NE VER CALLED ME AGAIN HE DISSAPEAR AND A FAMILY MEMBER OF HIS TOLD ME ALL THIS I WAS IN SHOCK, AND SO SAD, BUT YOU GET OVER IT AND YOU LEARN, AND IT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON AND IT HELPS YOU MAKE GOOD CHOICES.
i THANK GOD!! I DID NOT GO AWAY WITH HIM, I WAS YOUNG AND STUPID!!. AND MY MOTHER WAS RIGHT.
I DID NOT RUINNED MY FUTURE AND IT WOULD BE A SHAME FOR YOU TO RUIN YOURS.
SINCERELY .
A HAPPY WIFE MOTHER OF 2.
When will she be turning 18? Okay, I say that because she is a young woman, dispite what we may think or how hard we preach to these young girls they'll never know what we are really saying until they have been there. Yes, I do agree with you but I tell you, I have a daughter and it dosen't matter how much I may preach or how blue & black I get in the face my children always have to test the waters. I don't want her to become his victim by any means but, if that's what she wants let her get burned if she won't listen. I'm also a wife and mother of 2.
Respectfully,
Frusted about the whole damn situation!!!!
