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October 22, 2008, 7:25 am PDT
10/22 Forced to Be a Father
Quote From: marnitgirlARE YOU KIDDING ME IF YOU DONT WANT TO HAVE A CHILD DONT HAVE SEX, IF YOU HAVE ANY MORALES YOU WAIT TILL YOU ARE MARRIED ANYWAY READ YOUR BIBLE! MY FATHER IF THATS WHAT YOU WANT TO CALL HIM TO ME HE WAS A SPERM DONOR, DIDNT TRY TO MEET ME UNTIL I WAS 17 YEARS OLD, AND IT TOTALLY CONFUSED ME, I KNEW HOWEVER THAT THE MAN THAT RAISED ME WAS NOT MY REAL FATHER. MY SO CALLED REAL FATHER CAME INTO MY LIFE AND MESSED IT UP BIG TIME INCLUDING TRYING TO GET MY MOTHER BACK EVEN THOUGH HE WAS MARRIED, HE TOLD MY MOM THAT THERE WAS NO MARRIAGE AND HE WANTED HER BACK SO AFTER SHE DIVORCED MY STEP FATHER GAVE UP ALL RIGHTS TO A HOUSE SHE HAD HELPED PAY FOR AND MOVED HALF WAY ACROSS THE COUNTRY HE CHANGED HIS MIND AND WANTED NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY OF US! WHY BOTHER IN THE FIRST PLACE EVEN TRYING TO GET TO KNOW ME? IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU HAVE TO PAY THE PRICE WHAT ABOUT THE WOMAN AND WHAT SHE HAS TO GO THROUGH BY HERSELF HAVING TO RAISE A CHILD? TO THE LADY THAT HAD THE PERFECT LIFE WITH THE HUSBAND AND 2 PLANNED CHILDREN LOOK AT YOUR KIDS AND PUT YOURSELF IN THE OTHER CHILDS POSITION WITH NO FATHER JUST MEASLY 350.00 A MONTH NO EMOTIONAL SUPPORT, NO NOTHING, TO THIS DAY I ASK MYSELF WHAT DID I DO WRONG? HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO GROW UP LIKE THAT, BLAMING YOURSELF FOR A FATHER NOT WANTING YOU? YOUR MOTHER MADE THE CHOICE TO KEEP YOU AND THATS GREAT ,, HOWEVER WHAT IF YOUR FATHER HAD STAYED AND WAS A HORRIBLE FATHER AND HUSBAND,,,WOULD YOU STILL BE SAYING THE THINGS YOUR SAYING? NO YOU WOULDN'T.. YOU WOULD BE SAYING THAT YOU WISHED HE HAD LEFT,,,I AM SO TIRED OF PEOPLE SAYING MEN HAVE RIGHTS IN THIS MATTER NO THEY DO NOT!!!!!!!! MEN GET THE CRAP END ALL THE TIME THEY PAY FOR KIDS THEY DON'T WANT AND IF THEY DON'T OFF TO JAIL FOR THEM THEN THE SO CALLED MOMS SAY THEY ARE DEAD BEATS BECAUSE SHE MADE THE CHOICE FOR THEM (MAN AND WOMAN) TO KEEP THE KID,,,MEN SHOULD HAVE THE SAME RIGHTS AS WOMEN IN THIS MATTER ...IF SHE DON'T WANT IT SHE TAKES IT TO A CHURCH OR HOSPITAL THATS IS IT NO QUESTIONS NO NOTHING BUT IF A MAN DON'T WANT IT TO BAD YOU HAD SEX DEAL WITH IT ,,,,,,,,I THINK THATS A BUNCH OF BULL,,,MOTHER OF TWO
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