Messages By: afraid

just not the same way i pray  lol  all you have to do is ask god to gide your heart ,and follow what your heart is telling you thats how god talks to you, we all have to learn just to listen, it took a near death experance for me to listen to him you could say god killed two birds with 1 stone  in my and my now brother inlaws case  lol, your not a bad person nor did mike strike me as being a bad person i pray you will be able to over come your hurdelers in life and dr phils help will help both of you thank you for taking this time to respond to me, god bless both of you

the best way i found to let the past stay in the past was looking at it like this just picture your self standing on a bridge over looking a running river your taking a leak in the river, are you going to run down stream to drink ,or are you going up stream for a drink, me im goin up the river for my drink, the past just went down stream its gone ,i cant remove what i put in the water but ,!!! i can go up stream for a clean drink, just a little food for thought guys and gals god bless all,

im a man so i view this differnt then all you women do , but my first two marriges ended up with my wifes cheating on me, i was angrey hurt and truley felt worthless, i thought they were satin in womens form, truley i did,  i hated them for that, but i forgave them, it didnt change anything but my views on life, once i was able to do that i thought what am i doing that makes her not happy with me,after all i didnt see nothing wrong with me i wasnt cheating,but you know what it was me the way i was the things i did, i didnt even know i was posining our marrage, but i did, i thought i fixed all my problems i got married for a third time, well it failed too, icn now look back and see what the problems were but you know what they say hind sight is 20-20, cant fix none of that now but i can fix me its never too late for me, im still single and will be this way my dieing day but im happy, no worries and most of all no problems, what im tryin to say look at yourself make sure ur not the reason the person you love is cheating on you, dont wait till its hind sight for you aswell, betrayel is a terible thing i know its happened to me it hurts, but relly i hurt myself, it was my falt

its one thing to offer advice to someone ,but in my book its a low down thing to do to try to get someone like nicole to disregard dr phils advice, your relly a despret sounding person in what your saying, sounds like to me your trying to get her to do what her husband to be did, or maybe its just me but thats the way i read it!!!! am i the only one that sees it this way?

but ive not read anything about the people thear cheating with, do the well lets call them the  (cheat enablers ) not know that they are guilty of the same sin, and hears the kicker thear guilty of 1 more aswell, they cubited thy neabor, wow i dont think any one but myself even sees this other than god!!! no matter what the excuse its still a sin on both peoples part, from what im reading thears alot of people that need to go to church, and pray for forgiveness,

ive seen enough about cheaters, i never in my wildest dreams would have thought that the majority of this country, were cheating or bein cheated on, im goin to pray for this entier country and go to bed and get ready for tomorrows show ( summer slim ) god bless every one thats been hurt and may god heal your heart, nite all

that guy must relly be crazey, lol  looked like to me he should give his wife phrase, for all the weight she has already lost, if i ever told a woman what he told her, i truley would have a death wish,  im from georgia, women here would pop the top of a can of woop ass, if we men talked to them like that   lol, thats not a lie nether, they would!!! after all she has already lost  if it were me i better be telling her how good she looks, if not i would have sighned my own death warrant,  look guy encourage her in a differnt manner, your relly being rude,

and as for the two sisters im rofl about the package of unmarked m&ms  thats funny as heack (mean but funny ) it brought back memories of how my sisters were   lol  i got 5 of them im the only boy, you can just amagin my posistion as a child when my sises competed if i agreed with 1 the other would be mad at me, lol but relly all the ladies on the show are butiful people hang in thear youll do it!! god bless all of you

when the cameras were panning the audiance they showed julia the look in her eyes and on her face told me 1 thing, her husband is relly  a jerk, and hes not only a jerk but like he said to you i tell it like i see it , well mr jerk this is for you, open your eyes, and see how butiful your wife truley is, ohhh yeah while you have your eyes opened, please go take a look at your self in the mirrow, my mother always told me to always sweep around my door before i sweapt around someones eals door step, maybe you also need to remember this,

it was a very nice thing you have done for every one on your ,show god bless you for that, i relly did enjoy hearing all the things the competing sisters were doin ,one can tell they both have true spirit, and i can tell  (both are goin to win all those wedding dresses,lol )  that bridal shop better go ahead and start getting ready, as both those sisters will be winners, god bless them, and all my wishes for them a true and wonderful marrage.