Messages By: afraid

i truley would just love to see you dr phil tell certin people on your show what you wish you could say, but as i know legal issues and cencors pretty much have you leashed, i dont meen this in a bad scence, please dont be offended, but thear are times it seemes to me by the look on your face you relly want to tell those people something toataley differnt, i know  if i were in your place thats how i would feel, your a very strong person to restrain your self as you  do, very good job by the way; but as for me im weak,  lol  i would get sued with in less than a week  lol, (all jokes aside tho )it relly would be soo nice to see you put some of those jerks in thear propper place, god bless you, your a much better man than i could ever wish to be.

i for 1 could never be soo heartless to women of any size, and i can honestley tell you i have dated women of all sizes, but no matter how big or small those women were i only saw the true essence of that person, guys its not what,s on the outside that counts it all about whats inside that person that matters, any man that cant see this is truley lose whithin himself,

whan i dated large women we went to the beach and i was just as proud to be seen with them as they were with me, we never let what other people thought ruin a rememorable week end at the beach  we loved every min we spent togather, and guess what i would do it all over again, in my owne way i relly loved every woman i ever dated, i just wasnt what they were looking for in a husband, but we still had fun kickin our heals up at the beach wake up guys dont let the good one get away as i did trust me youll relly be sorry later in life

if you think ur over weight yes do something about it, but do it for you and no one but you, if a guy dosent like the way you apear, he dont love you, all he cares about is what he looks like with you at his side,( what ever your not happy with about you change foy you)!!! not for a man, buy him a doll and tell him addios amigo, hes truley not worth having you,

but it would still make me soo happy if he were able to let certain people just have it, thats why hes a much better person or man that i could ever wish to be,

its like the bit dog scyindrone, kelly has julia soooo  focused on her she hasnt got time to focus on him, also i got to know i always thought  the name kelly was a girls name, it is possible im wrong, nomatter tho, by the way julia, you looked great on the dr phil show today , any man in his wright mind would be proud to be seen with you on any beach any whear in the world!!!!!! congrads on all the weight you have lost, you will reach your goal, you do have what it takes, god bless you and i pray kelly will open his eyes and see the butiful person you are no matter what you weigh,

i have !!!!!(5)!!!! sisters and never in thear history of dating or marrage has a man ever spoken like kelly spoke to julia on dr phil today, im not a violent person but i say but if that were my sis i would have to attepemt to adjust his attitude just a bit, the nerve of kelly sitting on his #**#^*#*#* and telling her she still needed to louse another 25 pounds, the more i think about that the madder it makes me, was he for real!!!! are thear relly men in this world that heartless? (well if so)  god did say mans heart will heardin im so afraid i am seeing this come true

and  i rellyyyyyy  hope kelly is as well   glad im not the only person that sees him for what he relly is .

i ask every one here at( dr phil . com ) to please forgive me, i came to realize that by the things i were saying to people out of anger for what i saw , i was in fact sitting here in my home and passing judgement on them i do not have that wright , and  i beg you to forgive me for this and pray that god will as well, im sure deep down the people like kelly are indeed good kind caring people, just somewhear in thear lives something  has made them act this way, im truley sorry for only seeing the bad , i guess thats why dr phil  is dr phil, and im just someone watching the show, i know thears no way for me to see the real you kelly not in a 15 min time frame, you may not even know how you came off on the show today ,( however my prayers are for you tho) i pray god will soften your heart so no 1 see in your wifes face what i saw when the cameras paned the audiance 

on the show today, please try to show more love to her then what it looked like you were showing 

her on the show, she relly dose deserve it 

its a terrible time we live in, and so many children arnt tought wright from wrong, by thear parents, our country has no morrals, any more, and the sad thing is who ever the teen is that ruined this mans life probley didnt even get a slap on the hand, but yet a mans life is ruined,       even with the charges droped, it will follow him anywhear he ever relocates to, our prison systems are full of inisant people convicted of simelar charges, so like i said thank god this didnt happen to him, and shame on whoever acused that man in the first place, i cant even imagine how him or his wife feel, but just know the majority of this country stand by your side and my prayers are for you and your wife, youve been through enough, im sooo sorry to see someone with your love for your fellow man or woman and the children be treated this way,god bless you and may he get you through all of this , rest assured god punishes the guilty, with 10 fold for a crime such as you have endured,