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January 4, 2006, 12:30 pm PST

knows of the potty but doesnt want to use it

 HI my son is 2 1/2 now and is showing signs of readiness.  He loves to sit on the potty when Im in the bathroom.  I ask him several times during the day if he feels he has to use the potty and he always tells me no.  He is going about 3-4 hours between pee's and hardly pees during the night.  Is he just not ready to use it or does anyone have any advice on getting him interested in going on his potty?
 
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January 5, 2006, 10:54 am PST

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I am turning 40 in April!  

  

YIKES 

  

At my last doctors visit (just an annual check-up) she told me I really needed to stop smoking. In fact she never said much in my 20's or my 30's except to stop smoking but this time she was adament about it, she said you're almost 40 and you WILL start having problems if you continue to smoke. She also told me that smoking has NO redeeming qualities what-so-ever. 

  

Now I can stop smoking for a few days but I start again, mostly out of boredom with my job and my life. I was thinking I really need to hit the gym and that might solve my boredom and my fear of gaining weight when I quit smoking. 

  

The problem is getting started... and sticking with it. How can discipline myself enough to follow through on stopping altogether and going to the gym? Right now boredom is my worst enemy. It is winter here in NH and I am not bored in the summer (I do agility, and go to powwows and gatherings), its these long winter months that make feel ho-hum and slightly withdrawn. 

  

My news years resolution was to get a backbone and self discipline... neither are happening yet. LOL 

  

Any ideas for staying motivated to do the right thing? 

  

almost 40... and not looking forward to it. 

 My advice to you and to anyone that is trying to quit smoking is this:  the first thing you need to do is sit down and make a list of reasons why you want to quit smoking.  Things like health, the smell and such.  I rolled my own cigarettes for a long time because the price of tobacco went up so high.  I usually only smoked half or less and saved the rest for later.  One day I was outside playing with my 2 year old and he found my half and put it in his mouth and was trying to pretend to smoke it.  Whenever I want to pick up a cigarette that is definetly one thing I think about.  Another thing that help my mother quit smoking was she figured out how much money she spent every day to smoke.  And at the end of each day that she went without smoking she put that exact amount of money in a jar.  When she aquired enough to get something that she wanted, she went out and bought it.  It works out well because if you were still smoking you would have spent the money anyways.  Oh and if you make a list, put it somewhere you will see it if you try to have a cigarette.  Even make extra copies to put on your refigerator, table, whereever you will see it most.
 
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January 5, 2006, 11:22 am PST

livin in Michigan

Hi, I live in Gaylord.  Im a mother of 2 boys and I am looking for someone in the area that might have children and would like to have play dates.  This is probably going to be hard seeing as there have only been 2 people that have posted here but if anyone would like to just chat that would be great too.  I think that Michigan can be a lonely state in the winter with all the snow and a lot of people just stay indoors(like me) because it is just too darn cold out there.  I do take the kids out on slightly warmer days.  Its funny how when your a child the cold never seems to bother you becaus eyou are having so much fun but when you get older you feel the cold as soon as that door is cracked.   
 
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March 9, 2006, 6:48 pm PST

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Hi there! I am a single mom in Alpena. Not really close enough for playdates, but willing to chat if you want. I agree about Michigan and the winters here. I am so sick of snow! My e-mail address is in my profile, if you want to talk! Take care!
i finally came back on here.. i'll chat with you that is great.. my email address is butterflybush79@hotmail.com
 
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March 9, 2006, 6:50 pm PST

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 Hi, well how shocked am I to find someone in Gaylord. I am by Otsego Lake , I agree about the winters .I have been in gaylord for a year in a half and dont really know anyone  I have 2 daughters  9 and 10  and we are bored stiff. we are originally from Los Angeles  so we are not  to fond of the winter time.  

well we can all be happy because spring is on its way :)  it is so warm today.. one of my favorite pleasures is the awesome smell of the fresh clean warm air coming into your house when the windows are opened for the first time since fall .. i'm in eternal happiness today ..Spring is here!
 

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