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April 21, 2006, 1:57 pm PDT

He made his choice

Today's topic and first guest, Matt, really made me mad.  Matt was a prime example of foolishness and selfishness.  Matt made his choice when he decided to have sex.  He made this choice, each time he had sex.  Secondly, he made the choice when he decided not to wear a condom, every time.    

   

Matt doesn't really seem to be uneducated about the fact of how babies are conceived.  Therefore he had his chance and made his choice.  It frustrates me to no end to watch him sit there and say he didn't get a choice.    

   

Next I want to make a comment about the man who said that the "Roe vs Wade" did not have a rippling effect on the nation.  To him I will say:  45 million babies have been aborted since the "Roe vs Wade" decison came down.  I am not saying it was the right or wrong decision; but to say it didn't have any effect is as dumb as saying Matt didn't have a choice.  No wonder they are on the same side.    

   

   

 
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April 21, 2006, 2:13 pm PDT

04/21 Baby Wars

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I do agree with many of the posts that it is unfortunate that it has come to this.  However, I can't help but wonder why is it that you are blaming him?  This woman knew EXACTLY what she was doing.  Why would you have unprotected sex with a man that has told you numerous times that he did not want to be a father.  She made the choice to have this child all the while knowing that he did not.  So she should have to deal with HER choice and raise the child without his help.  

  

Women have fought for years for control over their bodies and reproductive right.  So it is now time to accept the responsibilities of those rights.  And if it is ultimately her choice, then it is ultimately her responsibility. 

I don't believe anyone is blaming Matt.  We are saying Matt is responsible for his own actions.    

Yes, she made a choice too.  The big difference is she is raising the child and taking responsibility.    

Matt is pretending he doesn't have any responsibility.   Why should the father be able to walk away ?  The child deserves support emotionally, mentally, and financially.  The law can only give her the financial support she deserves.  So no matter the outcome, she will be deprived.    

I wish the mother and child all the best !  

 

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