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Messages By: beckarae
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November 17, 2007, 9:34 pm PST
 Quote From: patrica i feel bad for these guys. my son is going through something like this only he is the dad and the mother wont let him see the boy because she is married to someone else and he thinks the boy is his. we don't know what to do about this. she said for two years that she was going to leave the husband but when the time come she changes her mind. My son was only 17 when they where together and she was suppose to be his counselor. I wish i knew what to do for him. he really love his son and he wants to be a dad. He had a really hard life and when the boy was born he had a reason to live again. i would like to know if anyone has had the same problem before.thanks for any advise As long as your son is the biological father, he has rights to see his child. If the mother won't allow him to see his son, or she makes it difficult, your son needs to take her to court. He needs to take her back to court as many times as it takes for her to abide by the visitation award that was given to your son. I know it is difficult on your son, but if the mother's new husband wants to be the father so badly, maybe he should cnsider allowing the new husband to adopt the boy to make life easier. If that is not a consideration, your son needs to keep notes, and keep her in court until the court eventually gives the child to your son. If the mother won't abide by the visitation order, she is in contempt, and she can get into alot of trouble. There are too any mothers out there that think just because they have custody, they can play the game of making it difficult for the father to see the child. The want the child support, but not the supporter in the picture. They want their cake and eat it too, and they need to be taught a lesson. There are too many mothers that use the children as pawns, and the day will come when the children reach adult age, and they will know the truth. They WILL hold it against the mother, not matter what. They may not be able to see the games the others play now, but they will when they get older. Tell your son to take good notes. He will have his time in the future to tell his son the truth! Momma won't look very good at that time, so watch out mothers. You re playing a dangerous game. Trust me, it happened to my husband, who still supports a child that isn't his, and his alledged daughter found out that the lies she had been told by dear mother were really lies. To this day, they don't have any kind of a relationship. The girl is 30 years old and has a few children of her own, and won't let her mother be a part of her life in any way! Should have thought it out a little better mom, right? Your loss now!!! Good luck to your son. Tell him not to give up. DO NOT ALLOW THE MOTHER TO WIN, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Take back the control! Keep good notes!!! |
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