Messages By: gyvonne321

I have no problem with consenting adults doing what they choose to do as long as they do not hurt any third parties whatever age,race creed or sexual origin. I have a major problem with someone who badgers their partner whether husband or wife into doing something that they do not want to do, that makes them feel dirty and violated. I watched tonight's show and was appalled. He basically, in my opinion forced her to be raped and did not care. Hey ,she will get used to it. Right I don't think so. I really wonder about him. He watched his wife getting raped and did not care. All of her reactions were of a rape victim, scrubbing herself, rigid, crying probably vomiting. This was a control issue, You do what I say you do, want what I want or I will leave you. She has low self esteem and even as she tried to fight against it she capitulated, because of her low self esteem, her fear of being alone, her fear of another failed marriage. He sucks, he is just another bully. Frankly she really should kick him to the curb and work toward knowing that she is a good woman, can be a stong woman, that she is worthy of being loved and cared for, for who she is and not what someone wants to force her to become, so he can get his rocks off.