Messages By: farmgirl7

I am 51, and have had anxiety since I am 17.  I do take a low dose anti-anxiety medication.  However, I have realized I only get stressed when I take on others garbage.  Meaning, a friend will call to complain about someone I don't even know.  This if I allow it, will drain my energy, and fill my mind with that person's garbage.  After a conversation like this, I find myself thinking about this person I don't know and their problems.  Now, when someone wants to fill my mind with garbage, I say I don't really care what others do.  I stay in the moment, the NOW and this keeps me calm and balanced.  But it I allow others to put neg. thoughts into my head, that is on me.  The garbage I put in my mind on a daily basis, is enough for me to work on, I don't have time to work on the garbage of others, only mine. Want peace of mind?  SAY NON VERBALLY  50 TIMES DAILY,   'I LIKE MYSELF NOW, AND I FORGIVE MYSELF NOW"  ?  FOR WHAT?  FOR ANYTHING REAL OR IMAGINED.  this is my mental and emotional bath, and I take it daily.  It really works, try it for 2 weeks, it is free and private.  peace to all   Karen

I have seen evidence that porn, does lead to swinging, when the person gets addicted to sex.  No judgements, we all have our vices.  It is not natural on any level.  However, we do what we learn, and WE DO BETTER, WHEN WE KNOW BETTER.

COULD THE PROBLEM BE: OUR DEF. OF LOVE?  DO WE PAIR SEX WITH LOVE?  DR. PHIL, PLEASE EXPLAIN WHAT REAL LOVE IS.  (WITH AND WITHOUT THE SEX)  MANY NEED TO KNOW.  THANK YOU

My hat is off to Lee, he so wants to save his family.  His inner pain, must have been intense.  Watching his wife, walk out the door, knowing she is off to have sex.  All I can say, is she must be in a whole lot of pain, to do this to her family.  It is shocking, to witness such forgiveness from the husband.  Makes we want to embrace forgiveness, on all levels.  The husband, is still balanced, and thinking straight.  His attitude, might come from being a forgiving soul.  No matter what happens, I know the husband will do fine, and he will make sure the kids do also.

yes farmgirl7 mixed up the names.  Sorry, I have chemo brain

Sorry Lady, I had chemo, to treat my cancer, and made a mistake on the name.  I mean no harm.

CARESID 

 

Dear Kerry, Kristina's Mom,

It would be a mistake to take any of our thoughts re: Kristina personally.

 

You are her Mother, and if anyone knows her, it would be you.

As far as that goes, we don't even know ourselves.  Hopefully, we are all working on that.

I  was a judgemental person, until I found out WHY.  Looking within, I realized when I judge, I was saying look everybody, I DON'T DO THIS, SO I AM BETTER THAN THEM.  Well, we are different, but not better.

 

Thank God for our differences.  And thank you Kerry, for you kind words.  Also, pet-scan is neg. re: cancer tumors, so chemo worked.  I get more time, to give and receive love.  God Bless