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April 27, 2006, 9:23 pm CDT

Differing Sex Drives

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I enjoy sex but unfortunately my husband is impotent most of the time and when he is not, he suffers from premature ejaculation.  What do I do?  We have been married for 11 years and I am at the point of calling it quits.  I have expressed my concerns but they fall on deaf ears.  He has some viagra but won't use it.  I'm sure he is concerned about the possible negative side effects of this drug.  Is it fair of me to push him to use it?  I would appreciate any advice?
I think that it is fair for you to ask him to use the viagra as directed by his doctor.  My husband is somewhat similiar to yours in this area.  His doctor told him he needed to use his brain and feelings to learn how to last longer.  It gets better part of the time, but I understand how your concerns fall on deaf ears, me too.  Try building his ego up and you take the lead.  Even if it doesn't work out the way you'd like, praise him and build that ego each time.  It has helped me.  Tell him what you want him to do for you...cuddling, kissing, etc.  He is probably mad at himself, like my husband gets.  Hope it helps.  I'm glad to know there are others out there with similiar problems.
 
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September 21, 2006, 9:43 pm CDT

Coping with the Death of a Child

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In June of this Year I Received The Phone Call No One Wants To Get... It Was My Son Hardly Able To Get The Words Out. The Words That Changed My Life Forever.... Mom, We Lost Devon....Devon Is My Daughters Child...There Are No Words To Describe The Feelings You Go Through.....No Words At All...My Beautiful 6 Year Old Grandson Was Gone., In Just A Blink Of An Eye....It Was a Freak Accident, In His Own Front Yard..Not Only Do I Have The Heartbreak Of Losing My Grandson, But To See The Pain My Daughter, Son In Law , Grandson, Son, Daughter, Husband and All The Family That Loved Devon So Much, Have To Live With Every Single Moment Of Their Being, Is so Unbearable....Knowing The Horror The Night of The Accident, Trying So Hard To Revive Him.....I CAN'T FIX THIS, And Its Killing Me...Devon Was A Beautiful Little Boy Inside And Out...He Was a Kind, Gentle, Caring, Little Boy That Always, Out Of No Were, Tell You "I Love You"...And Even Would Say, You Are In My  Heart...Do He Know Something None Of Us Did.....I Am So Sad, How Do You Get Through All The Heart Break and How Do I Help The Ones I Love......Please Visit Devons Memorial Website at www.memory-of.com
I am so sorry for your loss.  Just having someone to listen when you talk helps...they don't need to "know the right words" or even talk much...just being there for them will help.  When I lost my 7 year old daughter over 15 years ago, I withdrew into a shell.  I wish now that I had let some of my caring family in to help me grieve.  Bless you for being there for them.  Your pain is new and harder to bear right now.  It will lessen with time, although you will never forget.  I will pray for all of you each day. 
 

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