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April 27, 2006, 9:23 pm PDT
Differing Sex Drives
Quote From: emm999I enjoy sex but unfortunately my husband is impotent most of the time and when he is not, he suffers from premature ejaculation. What do I do? We have been married for 11 years and I am at the point of calling it quits. I have expressed my concerns but they fall on deaf ears. He has some viagra but won't use it. I'm sure he is concerned about the possible negative side effects of this drug. Is it fair of me to push him to use it? I would appreciate any advice? I think that it is fair for you to ask him to use the viagra as directed by his doctor. My husband is somewhat similiar to yours in this area. His doctor told him he needed to use his brain and feelings to learn how to last longer. It gets better part of the time, but I understand how your concerns fall on deaf ears, me too. Try building his ego up and you take the lead. Even if it doesn't work out the way you'd like, praise him and build that ego each time. It has helped me. Tell him what you want him to do for you...cuddling, kissing, etc. He is probably mad at himself, like my husband gets. Hope it helps. I'm glad to know there are others out there with similiar problems.
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