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March 16, 2006, 7:07 pm PST

Forgive

You will never find peace within yourself if you dont have forgiveness.  What I dont understand is WHAT WAS DANIEL DOING IN FRONT OF HER CAR? If it was dark, he never should have been there.   I happen to believe her.  The fact that she put a tree thru her windshield more than likely came from fright and sheer terror.  I do not believe she intentionally tried to kill or even harm your son.  Accidents do happen unfortunately and if he ran in front of her car, that was unfortunate.  I can understand you miss your son and my heart bleeds for you, but being hateful will never bring him back.  Brandy will carry this scar for the rest of her life and that will never be easy when she has to explain it to an employer, a husband and her own child. 

  

Please, please, for the sake of all of you, forgive her. You are becoming sick, your daughter will be hate filled and it will scar her for the rest of her life.  I see the horrible bitterness you all bear and how many lives are being ruined.   Hatred will never ever bring your son back. Its all water under the bridge and I am sure Daniel is up in heaven asking you to forgive her and let this go. 

 
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March 16, 2006, 7:16 pm PST

03/16 Cheerleader Scandal

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Daniel's mother is dealing with so much grief and chaos.  Don't make judgements on what type of mother she was to him.  U don't know, she's not your mother, right? 

  

 I think if Brandi would just show this woman some remorse for being the cause of her son's death this woman wouldn't be so angry.  At the very least Brandi is guilty of reckless driving if not involuntary manslaughter.  She hit him and he died, period, accident or not.  I dont know what sentence she should have got, but it definitely needed to be more than the 120 days Brandi claims she thought she was going to get for her plea. 

Brandi did show a tremendous amount of remorse in her interview with Dr. Phil. No matter what she says to Daniel's family, they are extremely bitter.His mother is filled with hatred as shown by her responses on the show. Daniels family is looking for revenge - an eye for an eye and probably if they could run Brandi over in their car they would.  It happened, that's the way it was written.  Daniel has instances of abuse and anger, Brandi had no prior history of anything of the sort.  As Dr. Phil always says, "past behavior determines future behavior".  If Daniel had anger and abuse, why didnt his family get counselling for him? Perhaps then, this never would have happened.   That is where the guilt, if any should lie.  That boy needed help.
 
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March 16, 2006, 7:29 pm PST

plea bargain?

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I am currently watching today's show and I am so angry.  If Brandi was innocent, then why take a plea bargain?  She agreed to the plea bargain so now she has to live with the choice she made.  I feel for her family, but we all live with the choices we make...even the "accidents" we cause.  We live in Italy and their law states that if you are at fault in an accident resulting in death due to negligence, you may be sentenced to  12 years in prison and large fines.  Anything that empares your ability to react to your surroundings, is no different than drunk driving.  For her to think that she would serve only 120 days for a HIT AND RUN was ludicrous.  Her HIT AND RUN was no accident.  That may be why her plea bargain was for VOLUNTARY MANSLAUGHTER.  Live and learn...
I dont believe Brandi even had an inkling or knew what a "plea bargain" was.  She was not understanding of legal jargon. Her sleazy lawyer tried to dump the case to go on with something that he knew he would win and convinced her to go for a plea bargain at the last minute so he could go on with another lucrative case that probably paid him more money. Washnt he a court appointed lawyer?  They are the worst. If you cant make it in prvt. practice, you cant be that good.  She should have had representation at that particular moment to advise her and not to just listen to him.  She got a bad deal with her lawyers.
 
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June 8, 2006, 3:05 pm PDT

Why do they bother?

I dont understand why parents will come on the Dr. Phil show seeking advice, and stubbornly sit there, listen to Dr. Phil and completely ignore what he is saying to them.  Why do they bother asking him for advice if they dont heed what he has to say?  Do they just want to be on television?  The two families that discussed their children, steadfastedly stuck to their guns and refused to change their ways of dealing with the child.  Simpson gave the parents advice on how to deal with their 9 year old and the father of the child sat there and said I am still going to tell her what she is doing wrong because she wants to hear it....No, she doesnt want to hear it, she needs encouragment and a pat on the head at the time. Any decent psychologist will tell them that.  

   

The other mother of the child in the pagent should be horsewhipped.  FIVE YEARS OLD?  What is she looking for another Jon Benet?  That child is running the show, the mother is not a disciplinarian, but in my opinion is seeking accolades for herself and not for her daughter.  She is an ignorant woman, and her daughter is going to pay the price for it.  I think the mother should take a good, hard and long look at herself in the mirror.  

 
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June 8, 2006, 3:09 pm PDT

06/01 "My Kid's a Star"

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As I quickly scroll through all of these messages, I notice that several of you have many many posts. Don't you have anything better to do than hide behind your computer and judge people that you don't even begin to know? Do you not have a life and family of your own? Or is your life so pathetic and boring that you have to try to drag someone else down to your level.  You have no idea about the world of pageants and yesterday's "pageant mom" was just the opposite of who most of us really are.  The level of pageants that we compete in judges it's winners on a combination of beauty, poise, personality, talent, and interview.  The cost, in no way, determines who wins and I know this for a fact because I am also a judge.  When you step into my shoes then, and only then, will you have a clear and accurate view of what the REAL pageant world is like.

Just happen to be passing thru this site: 

  

Seems to me you are spending alot of time on your computer checking out what other people have to say...why dont you get a life... 

 
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June 8, 2006, 3:10 pm PDT

06/01 "My Kid's a Star"

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Or does anyone else think this poor Kara can't even sing?  I mean, she does a passable imitation of the Leann Rimes yodel but, other than that, it's mostly screaming into the microphone.  Not to be mean, but why is this even up for discussion?  If she were a child prodigy, then it would be a question of whether or not or how hard to push her toward success, but I don't see this girl succeeding in country music whether she's pushed, pulled, or carried.  That makes the whole discussion even stranger.  When the mother says, "We've invested a lot of time and money into this, " it's almost like she resents the fact and is punishing the child for it.  Could it be the dad who wants it and the mom who gets to do all the practice-prodding and driving on the weekends?  Hm.
I am sure her voice will change by the time she is 16 and the competition is so great, she will fall by the wayside.
 

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