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May 13, 2006, 2:48 pm PDT

This is so depressing...

Being a man seeking for a wife to be mine for life, i find his actions and other like him ripple through, the ladies I have met.  It breaks my heart to hear all the tragic storied told to me time and time again on how they have been used and abused.     

The fact he did what he did is bad enough but the phycological torment he does is unthinkable.  

   

Well I wish this lady the very best. While I dont promote a divorce, I will say if she does, I hope she knows there still is some very nice and loving men that would treat her like a lady/ equil partner.  

   

   

 
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May 13, 2006, 3:09 pm PDT

Your partly right about that.

Quote From: a_muse

Amy is sent off on a special trip to build her self-esteem

And all this time I thought self-esteem came from having a backbone and doing things that you'd be proud of!

My personal opinon is one self esteem comes from her loveing partner. (provided she had one in the firstplace)  Being one that has gone thru a marrage that distroyed my self esteem, I can say that if she had been more up lifting and suportive I wouldnt be looking for some one like my self (happy and full of llive and love to share.  Suport from the partner will do wonders for a marrage and the more he gives to her self eteem the better the marrage gets.  

I say this because my parents have been married for 45yrs now and I still see that newlywood wedding blitz in ther atattude.  There is no low self esteem that I can see in thier marrage.   A example I hope to make happen finding my soulmate...  

  

She is out there I just have to open the right door!  

Hvae a GREAT day  

Terry  

 

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