Being a man seeking for a wife to be mine for life, i find his actions and other like him ripple through, the ladies I have met. It breaks my heart to hear all the tragic storied told to me time and time again on how they have been used and abused.
The fact he did what he did is bad enough but the phycological torment he does is unthinkable.
Well I wish this lady the very best. While I dont promote a divorce, I will say if she does, I hope she knows there still is some very nice and loving men that would treat her like a lady/ equil partner.